Hi All!
This thread has been an incredible source of information and assistance in the resale purchase process so I wanted to post our timeline for anyone else who might benefit from it. We purchased 150 SSR points ($55 - 53 Oct 2013 points with 150 coming Oct 2014) through Fidelity. I wouldn't say that the communication was proactive, but I did receive timeline responses to all of my inquiries.
Wed, May 1st - Offered and accepted (we had made previous offers on a couple of different properties on which we couldn't come to an agreement during the week)
Wed, May 8th - Received and returned contract and on to ROFR
Tues, May 28th - ROFR was waived

Happy day!
Thurs, June 13th - Received closing docs
Mon, June 17th - Closing docs and our check were received by the closing company
Mon, June 24th - Notified of closing from closing company
Tues, June 25th - Notified of closing from Fidelity
Fri, July 5th - Docs are available the Orange County Comptrollers site
Mon, July 8th - Received e-mail from
DVC with activation code. Called DVC for member number and was told that we will receive member docs this week.
So, if ROFR had taken the full 30 days, then we would be at closer to 3 months start to finish on the purchase. While I would have liked for things to happen faster, I am okay with the timeline due to the purchase price we were able to negotiate and Sharon's responsiveness during the negotiation period.
Good luck to everyone!!