Hi Jenny,
We are actually following a plan similar to yours. We are checking in to the WL on Thursday, 7/3, and staying through Saturday. We plan to relax around the pool, take walks, ride the boat, ride the monorail, eat out at Ohana Thursday night, AP on Friday, and in the evening we are going to check out Jellyrolls Thursday and PI Friday night. Our group will be DH, my Mom & me. We have a 1BR reserved.
We have to laugh at ourselves: My Mom lives about 2 hours south of Orlando, and we planned a 2 week vacation to visit her and make a few short trips to see other things. Initially, the plan was "No WDW". Then 2 months ago we called MS because we had some confusion on our points, and discovered we had some that we had sort of forgotten about, and thinking our next trip may not be until July or August '04, we "needed" to use them. So first we booked one day - the 4th. Then, talking with my Mom, she was pleased enough about the idea that we figured 2 would be better. Thus it has evolved!
Frankly, I wouldn't want to be in a park on the 4th itself, but we plan to try to take in as many fireworks as possible, either up close or from a distance. We also plan to catch the EWP from the Poly beach after our Ohana ressie Thursday night. I think there is no difficulty finding enough entertainment for a short visit w/o parks!
Have a great time, and maybe we'll see you there!