Okay, I just have to say this...
I will preface by saying that I am NOT a DeAnna fan... I am not crazy about her at all, and I have no interest in promoting her or defending her image...
However, I simply see no strong basis for the DeAnna bashing!!!
Sure she can be a bit emotional at time...
Sure she can be a bit direct and outspoken at times..
We all are the way we are... And, she is really upfront about who she is.
But I do not see where she has been controlling, manipulative, selfish, or has screwed anybody.....
I think Graham is 'Damaged Goods', and if he thinks that he has been open with DeAnna, or anyone else in his life, he is deluded and needs some professional help. DeAnna has been HOT for his looks... I am just wondering if she is not also hot for him because she has some underlying issue with choosing men who are not psychologically and emotionally available. (to her, or to anybody else...) I see a pattern there with her falling for Brad and then her falling for Graham.
Truth be told, both Ryan and Graham took some SERIOUS digs at her... Actually deflecting their own very serious problems/issues onto her, like it was HER problem that things did not work out for them. Ummmm YEAH RIGHT... I think DeAnna was completely justified in how she handled their downright verbal attacks.... I blame THEM.. How could they make some of the comments that they made to her... Not cool.
Like I said, I am not crazy about her... didn't really like her on the Bachelor.. But I tuly see no real basis for DeAnna bashing... I think it is just an example of how woman can be so immature and 'catty'... Always clawing at another woman's back...
Anyhow, I had thought that this was the LAMEST episode of bacherlor/bachelorette EVER... Until last week!!!!
I can't say I have any good idea about what might happen, but there are have definitely been some interesting twists and turns!!!!
It could be real... or it could ALL be set up by the producers... Never know.. Reality TV is not 'real'....
I do find it interesting that they have NEVER mentioned any positive words about the ending, like 'proposal' or 'engagement'... (when they desperately need another success story...) But, now, all of the sudden.. after the men tell all... All kind of innuendo is swirling... Anything is possible, and I do think that it is possible that DeAnna and Graham managed to get together at the taping of that episode... We all know that HE (no matter now distant and 'damaged') is the one that DeAnna has wanted.
I hate to admit that I have been drawn in by this stupid show.. but I will be watching!!!