I am finally ready!!!!
I would love to take down the Halloween, skip the Thanksgiving decor, and go straight to xmas!!!!! Part of that is because I am actually ahead of schedule on cleaning through the house and partly because DD just brought home Christmas music to practice for orchestra!!!!! We have also made plans to go to NYC for a day to do holiday stuff!!!!

We were in Macys in NYC a couple weeks ago and went to the top floor to see all the Christmas trees and bought a couple items. Seeing Rockefeller and Macys just put me in the mood for the parade and the tree lighting.
OP asked about traditions:
we decorate the big live tree together one evening. We have cookies and cocoa. (We used to have a cat that would steal a cookie every year - really miss him!)
we also try to take time to do one holiday thing like a play, concert, etc - this year it is NYC. There is a local tree and Gingerbread house contest that we have meant to do, may fit that in.
I have a tradition of sitting down in front of "White Xmas" and making/organizing my holiday shopping list. We have usually seen family over the holiday and have ideas from them. If I have time, I also start the Xmas cards. Just a nice quiet day in between the busy Thanksgiving weekend and the holidays ahead.
Since I am ahead on the cleaning, I can actually start to put trees and decorations up Thanksgiving weekend. I may actually have that relaxing holiday season I always want. Though I will probably just fill it with more baking! I won't start with the xmas music, other than DD's practicing, until then!
DH will start the outside decorating as he takes down the Halloween. Around here, you never if you can count on the weather cooperating, so you do it when you can. We won't turn on the lights until Thanksgiving though!
(my MIL does the stock pile thing for gifts to an extent....not a fan!!!!!) I believe in buying WITH THE RECIPIENT in mind..it is the thought that counts and this does not involve any thought of the person you are gifting!!!!)