Any Single Disney Men Out There?

[blondie7]

Way to go Dave . You must be so excited. To get your first hole in one and at Disney. Can't get any better than that. Glad you had a magical trip.

 

[DisneydaveCT]

Great job, Dave!!! The closest I came to playing golf was doing PR for a golf course and at one outting where my help was needed, driving the golf cart like a mad woman hopping hills almost landing in a lake. Oops. you're not supposed to drive on the green? Oopies!


And I think your dreams come true post stopped a few ladies in here's hearts thinking you met a princess on your trip

Thanks everybody for your congratulatory notes. I sincerely appreciate the well wishes.

And no CinRell, no Disney Princess was found for me this trip. Maybe my next trip will be different.

 

[i<3Disney]

I'm horrible at regular golf but I get a few hole in ones when I play mini golf

 

[sandy5764]

I'm horrible at regular golf but I get a few hole in ones when I play mini golf

Mini-golf --- now that's more my speed!!!

 

[deltachi8]

Mini-golf --- now that's more my speed!!!

Just a curious question...do you think Mini-golf started or is the reason behind the "mini" craze? Mini pancakes, minidoughnuts, mini-whatever you can think of?

Just a random thought for the morning....i like random thoughts.

 

[CinRell]

**Crossing fingers** for ya, Dave.

I've given up on the whole "finding Prince" thing... but I'm loving the new friends I'm making here

 

[sandy5764]

Hmmm ... interesting question. Anybody know the answer to this one???

 

[sandy5764]

**Crossing fingers** for ya, Dave.

I've given up on the whole "finding Prince" thing... but I'm loving the new friends I'm making here

I didn't find my "Disney prince", but did find a prince who likes Disney. I'm sure that the more time he spends with me and my Disney (what word am I looking for?) obsession, he'll become as addicted as I am. We're already planning a summer 2007 trip "home".

 

[deltachi8]

I didn't find my "Disney prince", but did find a prince who likes Disney. I'm sure that the more time he spends with me and my Disney (what word am I looking for?) obsession, he'll become as addicted as I am. We're already planning a summer 2007 trip "home".

Sandy - where is your avatar from? Im looking for a good mickey design for a tattoo...

 

[sandy5764]

Sandy - where is your avatar from? Im looking for a good mickey design for a tattoo...

I think I just did a search online for disney clipart and found that. You're more than welcome to use it. Where are you thinking about getting a tattoo? I have an outline of Mickey's head just above my right ankle. I absoltely love it!!!

 

[DisneyFanatic4Life]

Hi everyone!

mdhkitten PM'd me the other day after seeing my DVC post and suggested I pop in here and introduce myself.

I'm going through a very difficult time in my life right now. My fiancé just recently left me. I definitely don't want this to turn into a sob story, but I feel obliged to tell the story (looking for a little support from fellow Dis’ers).

O.K., so here we go…

My (ex) fiance and I were together for 5 ½ years…got engaged last December (’05)…I proposed at the Polynesian during the fireworks…it was sooo amazing (check out my pics on myspace – some guy just happened to be several hundred feet behind us when I proposed and he ended up snapping like a billion pictures…he came up to us afterwards and told us about it…about a week later he emailed me close to 100 pictures…the pic on myspace is my favorite…right after I had proposed, you can see us, we’re the silhouette)…anyway, ughh, that gets me emotional every time…

Fast-forward to the last week in August. Totally out of the blue my fiancé says she needs time for herself, so she goes and stays at her dad’s house. 3 days later she calls me to see if I’d like to go out to dinner for my B-Day…we go out and she didn’t really have anything to say. 2 days later I plead with her to come home so we can work on whatever it is that is wrong. She comes home and tells me she wants to postpone the wedding (but at this point I know she already postponed the wedding without ever mentioning it to me – our wedding planner told me), then she won’t even talk about it. 2 GREAT days go by, everything’s going awesome. Out of the blue, she says she wants to go back to her dad’s house. I’m like “O.K.”…9 days later she shows up on my doorstep, comes in the house, and with a straight face, no emotion whatsoever, she tells me she wants to break up. No explanation – nothing. She moves her stuff out a day later when I’m not home, and then leaves a note asking that I take down her bike (because we had our bikes hanging in the garage and she couldn’t get it down)…I take the bike down anticipating that she’ll show up that day (while I’m at work and pick it up), I shower the bike with about 300 roses and surround it with every framed picture I could find of the two of us…she ends up coming a week later (this past Friday), peels of the dead roses (by now they’re wilted), takes the bike, and writes me a note “too much, too late” < that’s it?!?!

Now I know what some of you are thinking – there’s something going on here that he’s not saying, right?

Nope.

I’ve gone over it in my head hundreds of times…
- She was heading down the ‘wrong path’ when we first met, and her life really got better after we began dating…
- I never even in the slightest bit raised my voice to her…
- Never hit her…
- Supported her in everything she did…
- Never cheated on her…
- Supported her through school/college (I own my own company)
- The list goes on and on and on…

I know it seems crazy for me to list things like that, but I truly treated her like a ‘Disney Princess’ and am so confused about what’s transpired over the last 5 weeks, I can’t think of anything large or small that I’ve EVER done to deserve this…

I talked w/ several friends that have known both of us since even before we started dating and they’re completely dumbfounded by the whole thing. They can’t believe any of this! And all of our mutual female friends were/are like ‘she’s crazy for leaving you!?!?...you’re the best guy I’ve ever met!?!?’

Anyway, it’s been a very, very, very difficult 5 weeks (since this whole thing started)…and I’m having a very difficult time moving on and dealing with my day-to-day stuff…

I’m a DVC owner and we had a 14 day honeymoon at BWV (on the boardwalk) planned from the Dec. 18th – Jan 1st. I was on the DVC board trying to sell it, but I’m so confused right now I don’t know what to do.

I may go for the second week with a group of friends – not too sure.

Well, I’m single, but am taking things extremely slow…not really even looking to meet ‘someone’, really just here looking for friends and fellow Dis’ers. If you’re planning on being in Disney between Dec. 18th and Jan 1st, drop me an email, maybe we can get a group of people together to hang out or something.

I’m a Disney fanatic – been well over 100 times in my life…

You can PM me here or check out / email me through myspace at:
http://www.myspace.com/harden_website

Thanks everyone for letting me spill some of my emotions a little.

Oh yeh, I’m 22, obviously single, but not here looking for anything more than a friendship w/ fellow Dis’ers.

Thanks,
Josh

 

[i<3Disney]

"Photo's of my Vero Beach wedding
Just returned from my Vero Beach wedding, if you'd like some pic's PM me.

I've got tons of pics of the whole property"

http://disboards.com/showthread.php?t=994990


I found this post by you a while ago, whats up with that?

 

[rer1972]

Hey Josh,

Reading your post was like deja vu. I did all the same things you did; helped her get through school and all and then the wheels fell off. I wanted try marriage counseling; she went twice and said, "...it's not going make a difference".

I know right now everything is going to suck. You're going to see, smell, hear, and feel things that are going to remind you of her on a constant basis. Heck I couldn't sleep for a few weeks after she left cause she was in every dream I had, and I'd wake up sweating and feeling horrible.
The best thing to do is; well, to do things. You have your own business so I'm sure that keeps you busy(try not to let what happened affect your business). Stick to your friends and family. It's funny when you start talking to your guy friends how almost everyone of them has a story kind of like yours (didn't realize how many of my buds had been divorced till it happened to me).
I don't recommend taking any drastic steps right now (selling the DVC). Wait till things calm down some to make those decisions. I would recommend taking a vacation when you are ready for it. I went to Vegas (my 2nd fav destination ) with a bunch of my buds a few months after she left the house. I actually had one of the best times of my life.
Don't worry about feeling bad; that's normal. Just don't let the bad feelings keep you down. If you are feeling bad talk to someone, go excercise, go to the store, or whatever gets you thinking of other things.
Little by little you'll start noticing that you don't think about her as much during the day. Eventually, (since you did have good times) you will get to the point where you can think about the good times you had and smile instead of feeling down. It does get better.
As I'm sure mdhkitten told you; you can always chat with us. I'd say we're all a good bunch of folks that like to help when we can.

 

[DisneyFanatic4Life]

i<3Disney,

My fiance and I were goofing back and forth...we were sitting in the same room and she was logged in at her computer, I was logged in at mine...I made that post, knowing she'd respond...and then when she did, I was like...'ask them for pics of there wedding'...she did, then I (she didn't know it was me) asked for 'her pics'...then I said, 'wow, this guy's weird', it went on back and forth for about 20 minutes...it was hilarious - you had to be sitting there to really understand.

lol, I get more questions about that post than you'd beleive.

At the time we were looking for vero beach wedding pics (considering having our wedding there)...made for a good laugh.

 

[i<3Disney]

So when people asked for pictures of your wedding, you told them it was a big joke? Um yea....

 

[CinRell]

Good detective work I <3
I'm SO sick of people playing games like this... this is the 3rd guy this month to do the same thing....

not to mention all of the men who've recently led some of us to believe something was there only to announce they met someone....

Why the need for games? I don't GET it.

 

[i<3Disney]

I think he did it to get someone to buy his DVC points. If you look, all his posts are about selling.

 

[mdhkitten]

Welcome Josh! I'm glad that you found us and posted your story. I'm so sorry about what happened! I'm here for you as a Disney friend whenever you need someone to talk to. Maybe she was too young or immature for getting married now, and wanted to live some more of her life. How old was she? It sounds like you've been together since you were really young.

Just to let you know, some of the women on here have been burned by men on the DIS (not necessarily on this thread), who have pm'd them and then found out that they had a gf or were engaged, so now we're careful about reading other's past posts to know if they're really single, or just trying to pick up people. I just don't want you getting scared when people ask you about the Vero Beach story.............I know you explained it on the DVC forum, so I understand.

 

[nightowlky]

My BS detector just exploded!

 

[DisneyFanatic4Life]

lol, woah, woah, woah...I'm being dead serious...my (ex) fiances member name is justengagednicole...i came here for support, not to get beaten up. I could very easily delete the contents of the old thread...but again, it was between my fiance and I - if you weren't in the room, you wouldn't understand...just think of how funny that situation would be. well, I guess I had better watch what I say - thanks for the support.