Any Single Disney Men Out There?

[Disneyfan63]

CG,

The coaster at Six Flags Great Adventure in Jackson, NJ (about an hour from my house by car) is called Kingda Ka and is 456 feet tall at its peak, and reaches a top speed of 128 miles per hour.

Jim

 

[Tink's Tormentor]

Wow, i haven't been around much... What have I missed? Any match ups?

 

[ugadog99]

Just wanted to say hi to all the new folks who have visited out little chat group. It's a wonderful place to meet friends. If you haven't visited, check us out. We'd love to have you.

Melanie

 

[Disneyfan63]

Hi,

I second uga's post. Welcome, newbies!

864 posts on 58 pages. Most sacred excrement!

Jim

 

[Bobby]

Hi single guy here 46 planning to spend 47th birthday in possibly mk with my 2 children age 12 & 14, going to orlando on 7th july untill 28th can't wait we are all so excited, i have been before but not for 15 years, new to this board any ideas on what to do for my birthday appreciated,
thanks. bobby

 

[CinRell]

Most sacred excrement!

Jim

WHAT??

 

[erikthewise]

Hi,

I second uga's post. Welcome, newbies!

864 posts on 58 pages. Most sacred excrement!

Jim

WHAT??

Translation: "Holy XXXX!"

 

[CinRell]

LOL I was thinking something TOTALLY different!

 

[dbk1029]

Anyone going to be there the 1st week of November? I'll be there from Oct 29th (my birthday! 31 ugh) to November 5th. Going with my mother, grandmother, brother, and brothers gf. Currently single and living in Southeastern PA outside Philadelphia.

 

[wdwtheplacetobe]

Hi single guy here 46 planning to spend 47th birthday in possibly mk with my 2 children age 12 & 14, going to orlando on 7th july untill 28th can't wait we are all so excited, i have been before but not for 15 years, new to this board any ideas on what to do for my birthday appreciated,
thanks. bobby

Welcome!!!!

Make sure to go by City Hall in the morning and obtain a Happy Birthday Button for you to wear.....You might think about the Hoop Dee Doo Revue for your bday....it's a FUN dinnershow.

have a Magical Trip!

Mel

 

[wdwtheplacetobe]

Translation: "Holy XXXX!"

Congratulations!!!

You speak "Tiggerease"!!!!

 

[ugadog99]

I've missed you the last couple of nights in chat, wdw. Hope to talk to you soon.

Melanie

 

[Kimmielee]

After 4 years of an on and off relationship that has been "on" since December... I think I've finally hit the end of my rope.

This man.... I'm so upset right now I can't even call him my BF... and I work in the same building but not for the same company. Long story short... I just took my son on our Dream Vacation/Disney Cruise and we were gone for 16 days. The beginning of our trip was 4 days in KY with my Dad.

Without all the details.... does it seem NORMAL to anyone out there that I've been home since Sunday afternoon... tonight was the first time he's called me and said our plans for Saturday are "on hold" because he's so busy with fixing things around his house?

IF he cared, he would have already made an effort to see me. We have to meet secretly for lunch because we mutually decided that "this time around" we weren't going to advertise that we were dating again to our co-workers...

However, no call to meet before Saturday and now Saturday is questionable? I keep hearing quotes from the book ... "He's just not that into you". I think his actions speak volumes.

I think I should just end it.... I'm probably just letting him off the hook.

Why in the world did I go into this again????? Sorry, needed to vent and knew you all would "get it". Thanks...

 

[chell]

Kimmielee if there are other things making you question it then maybe you are right. Life is too precious to waste time on someone who isn't really interested and who isn't worth it.

 

[tmli]

i spent 10 years married to someone who "wasn't that into me"...I have read the book. It took a long time for me to be honest with myself and admit it to me. I think you already know the answer, just be honest with yourself.

I have met someone new and I am telling you...like the book says...when he is that in to you...theres no question, you know. He is kind and attentive and goes out of his way to make me know how much I mean to him. I believe that it makes his day better just by hearing from me. The feeling is mutual...I am so into him!!

Just follow your heart and be honest with yourself. Good Luck to you!

 

[Disneyfan63]

Hi,

tmli, the "companion" to that book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo, is one written by a Dr. Ian Kerner, Ph.D called Be Honest: You're Not That Into Him, Either. I've read both, and found traces of myself in some of the lame men portrayed.

Jim

 

[ugadog99]

Kimmielee, it sounds like you already know the answers to your questions. As hard as it is, perhaps it is best to end it now. If he has made no effort to see you since your trip, he isn't worth it. No one should be stuck in that type of relationship. Like tmli, it took me a long time to come to the understanding that being happy alone is way better than being miserable with someone. Once I got to the spot, I could just enjoy my life. If the right guy finds me, it will be wonderful. If not, I can be happy without a man. No guy is worth the heartache this one seems to be causing you.

Melanie

 

[disneyaggie]

After 4 years of an on and off relationship that has been "on" since December... I think I've finally hit the end of my rope.

This man.... I'm so upset right now I can't even call him my BF... and I work in the same building but not for the same company. Long story short... I just took my son on our Dream Vacation/Disney Cruise and we were gone for 16 days. The beginning of our trip was 4 days in KY with my Dad.

Without all the details.... does it seem NORMAL to anyone out there that I've been home since Sunday afternoon... tonight was the first time he's called me and said our plans for Saturday are "on hold" because he's so busy with fixing things around his house?

IF he cared, he would have already made an effort to see me. We have to meet secretly for lunch because we mutually decided that "this time around" we weren't going to advertise that we were dating again to our co-workers...

However, no call to meet before Saturday and now Saturday is questionable? I keep hearing quotes from the book ... "He's just not that into you". I think his actions speak volumes.

I think I should just end it.... I'm probably just letting him off the hook.

Why in the world did I go into this again????? Sorry, needed to vent and knew you all would "get it". Thanks...

Kimmielee --- you deserve better.

I am a Christian so my view on this type of situation is simple: Satan wants you to settle. When you settle, then how can God put the right one in front of you?

There is a book called "If Men Are Like Buses, Then Why Is It So Hard To Catch One?". It is awesome! It basically states that when you are still holding onto someone else, rather if you are still in a relationship, or in your heart, then how can someone who is right for you read in you by your actions that you are open to meeting someone new.

"He's Just Not That Into You". Great book. Says it all. If he is going to treat you like that now, then how will he treat you should you get married? Trust me, it does not get better, if anything quite the opposite. But you know that already, now don't you?

You deserve someone that will love you and treat you with respect. Hugs to you!

 

[Kimmielee]

Thanks everyone... I did end it last night. I think just having the ability to put my thoughts down in a post actually gave me courage to see the truth.

I truly appreciate eveyone's wishes and suggestions. I love this place!

Thanks again, Kim.

 

[disneyaggie]

I love this place!

Thanks again, Kim.

Remember: you are loved!