Kimmielee
Living my Disney Happily Ever After dream... ♥
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Female, 45, Southeastern MI
Worst date: It was between 9/11/2001 and when we invaded Iraq. The gentleman (I use the term loosely here) was chaldean and from Iraq. As we sat at dinner he made the following statements:
1. Saddam should be given sainthood for keeping drugs out of Iraq. If you were even found with drugs or suspected in anyway, you were shot in the head. Result, no one did drugs.
2. Boys that grow up without fathers become theives, vagrants or murderers. (I am a single Mom, with a son... no father in the picture)
3. All single women over 35 were desperate and useless to society.
My responses:
1. "So, if I were upset with you and made a phone call or worse yet, planted drugs on you... you would be shot in the head no questions asked?" He said yes. I said... "So, is that fair...no trail? No way to defend yourself?" He said yes... because if he was foolish enough to be around someone that was into drugs (which I AM NOT!!) then he deserved to be shot in the head.
2. I asked him if he forgot about the little boy in the high chair that was at my house, with a sitter... when he picked me up? He said "Oh, I didn't mean YOUR son!"
3. I had just turned 40, but have always looked a lot younger!
What did I do? I called a friend, told them where to find me and promptly left him sitting in the restaurant after I told him that his statements had made me sick to my stomach and I couldn't even stand to allow him to give me a ride home.
Worst date: It was between 9/11/2001 and when we invaded Iraq. The gentleman (I use the term loosely here) was chaldean and from Iraq. As we sat at dinner he made the following statements:
1. Saddam should be given sainthood for keeping drugs out of Iraq. If you were even found with drugs or suspected in anyway, you were shot in the head. Result, no one did drugs.
2. Boys that grow up without fathers become theives, vagrants or murderers. (I am a single Mom, with a son... no father in the picture)
3. All single women over 35 were desperate and useless to society.
My responses:
1. "So, if I were upset with you and made a phone call or worse yet, planted drugs on you... you would be shot in the head no questions asked?" He said yes. I said... "So, is that fair...no trail? No way to defend yourself?" He said yes... because if he was foolish enough to be around someone that was into drugs (which I AM NOT!!) then he deserved to be shot in the head.
2. I asked him if he forgot about the little boy in the high chair that was at my house, with a sitter... when he picked me up? He said "Oh, I didn't mean YOUR son!"
3. I had just turned 40, but have always looked a lot younger!
What did I do? I called a friend, told them where to find me and promptly left him sitting in the restaurant after I told him that his statements had made me sick to my stomach and I couldn't even stand to allow him to give me a ride home.
...we now return to our customary not-so-controlled chaos. 
