Any other DISers trying to concieve? Reread OP for the QOTD!

[Lisa loves Pooh]

True, true, but I must say- I was at WDW in May (before I got pregnant) and EVERYTHING for babies is either pink or blue, which makes it hard to buy anything. The only gender neutral stuff they had was Winnie the Pooh

And shhhh , don't tell anyone, but:

I hate Winnie the Pooh.

I'm sorry, I know lots of people love him all stuffed with fluff, , but I just don't.

I don't like Winnie the Pooh either! . I try to keep it a secret.

 

[fanofdisney]

Do all of you search the internet for baby names? I sure wish it was up to me to pick! I like modern names, but not too weird, dh thinks all of them are just weird. I'm hoping it won't be a battle this time. Our son's name is Noah, an older name, but popular again.

beckmrk: I love the Vaylie name!

My sister just had a girl and named her Brenna Presley. My parents were way weirded out by that. I guess it's just their generation.

Back on topic, dh would die if he knew I was already searching names! We have no bun in the oven yet! lol

 

[7beasley]

Hi guys...popping in to see if there were any updates on Elaine...nothing yet though.

Just wanted to post a quick response to LisaB and Carla...

LisaB ---- good luck -- all those follicles sound great! I have my fingers crossed for you!!

Carla -- thanks for the nice comments - I get ALL the eggs she produces and you are reading my mind...we are hoping for lots of eggs and that it works without too many IVF cycles so there will be "left over" eggs that we can freeze for siblings. It would be nice (assuming we don't have twins which I am kind of hoping for) to have eggs to use later so the kids would be 100% siblings (same bio mother, same bio father!). I think we are doing the ICSI - almost positive about that.

Post your blood test news as soon as you get it -- I am pulling for you that all is well.

Hellos to everyone else!!

Have a good night ladies.

-Nicole

 

[beckmrk04]

LOL! Sorry Lisa. Maybe you can love Pooh enough for me too, huh?

fanofdisney- DH and I had the names picked out before we got pregnant!! Actually, if we were having a boy it would have been Spencer Thomas, and we have had that picked out for like, 2 years!!!

I am SUCH a planner.

 

[WannabeRockerMom]

I told my immediate family tonight and didn't get the response that I expected. My mom had been saving me some things and she has slowly been giving them away to cousins or friends who have had babies and she was going to give something else away that she had kept for me to a neighbor who just had a baby and I told her not to. So I had to tell her, and my brother and sister in law and sister and brother in law and dad were all there so they heard too.

My sister and sister in law were really excited about it, and supportive even though my sister fussed at me for keeping things from her. My brother didn't say anything, but he doesn't say much about anything so it was no big deal. My dad was great, and agreed with me that there is no perfect time.

But my mom, the person I thought would be the most excited, just acted weird about it. She said, "why? why NOW?" And then wouldn't even talk to me about it. I mean, it's taken me a long time to come to this decision, and its a big deal for me. This was a huge decision to start ttc. And I've been really excited and happy about it. But now, I just feel crappy.

 

[SDFgirl]

Hi everyone!

My name's Nancy, DH and I are both 29. We've been married about 10 months.

I have lurked on this thread and even posted a few times, but never really "joined up" because we're not officially TTC yet.

We were originally going to start TTC in February. But! A few days ago, DH said he wanted to start trying next month!! I'm so excited! I have not been charting or anything, but I'm pretty regular. So...I want to give it a few months of just trying without charting. Hopefully we'll have some good luck!

My only frustration with this whole thing is - DH is a very "in the moment" kind of person. He's happy about TTC, but not really excited like me. I am always looking forward and planning things out - so I want to talk about names, nurseries, pregnancy, etc. He's just not all that into it at this point. I know he'll be excited when/if it happens, but he's not thinking about it all the time like I am...and I don't want to wear him out with baby talk and suck all the fun out it...

Anyway, venting over. Hope all are well and congrats on all the new buns in the oven!

 

[helenabear]

Evening all! I did hear from the nurse. My doctor had an emergency and was super backed up the rest of the day. The nurse said I should hear more tomorrow. But she was able to tell me the numbers looked okay. I'm still cramping like AF wants to come, but for now, the spotting has stopped. I haven't seen anything since this morning (I started yesterday evening). I am sure I will go back and they will compare the numbers. I forgot to ask the values, but being a nurse w/o the doc going over the numbers closely herself due to the emergency, I am not sure she would've been able to tell me them specifically. I am very pleased with the way my office is working thouh. This could wind up being nothing, but they seem to take everything very seriously. I really like that feeling knowing I do matter as a person, and that they are willing to squeeze me in even when i am not a true emergency.

The end result, I am NOT testing with a HPT again. The faint line had me far more scared than if it had just been spotting and cramping. I am definitely not out of the woods, and I am NOT trying to be hopeful. Just ready to expect anything. Been through a lot of emotions today and feel rather "stable" now.

Carla, I am sorry that you will have to wait for your beta. I am sure that has to be killing you to wait. I do hope you can get in ASAP! I will be hoping for good numbers for you as well.

Christal, I totally agree... a miracle is just that! I never would have thought that this would be so hard!

fanofdisney, I admit, I've had HPT for a long time. After a couple BFN in the past, I decided to quit testing. Mostly becaues I didn't want to afford it I'm sorry that you had to suffer a miscarriage in the past as well. You are right, that does give hope that one can finally get pregnant.

LOL, Kelly! I've heard that before! I think we shushed people up with that idea since we moved into our house years ago. Then again, my DH did get laid off just after we closed. As for temp, at this point a raised temp (overall compared to the rest) would be a good sign, but not a sure thing.

Andrea (I never knew either), I actually do appreciate hearing that it can be totally normal to have AF type cramps. Of course when I first looked it up, all I found were negatives and brown spotting. I haven't seen any red, and even the nurse said that was a good sign for now. I have been resting too... my DH did fold all my clothes for me

Nicole, I am smiling so big after hearing the news! I do hope that it all works out nicely for y'all! I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you!!!

Lisa, my fingers are crossed for you as well. I hope this IUI takes and sticks!

Becky, what a cute name story there I really like the middle name with it as well. It just flows nicely

Bethany, sorry AF came with such a vengance. There are times when I would love to have a cycle that long, but I am sure that TTC makes it not so much fun. I am more sorry about your DH with the work. My DH went through a lot of that. It was so hard on him and I know it put him through depression as well. Things eventually did look up and he got an awesome job! It was so rough for a long time though. And I really do hope your luck picks up soon as well

Welcome TAKitty! I never even once thought of buying something at WDW for a baby! That's a good idea! I admit, I am such a planner too. I thought that I was going to have my first kid at around the age of 26. When I was 27 and still not pregnant, I cried. Don't worry aobut your age yet. My mom was 32 when she had me

Becky, you hate Pooh? I love Pooh!!!! Okay, no picking on you from me... I don't like a couple of the fab 5 myself

As for baby names... I have actually trying to find names that I like that have some specific meaning. I think I like Megan (spelling unsure of) Rose for a girl. The boy Antonio seems to win, but no middle names call to me yet. I think we are going with any nationality for girls and Hispanic for boys. Our last name starts with an A and a lot of Hispanic girl names just don't flow. Though I really like Isabel. However, I know no one outside of my family would say it right

Awww... WannaBe Ignore you mom. I have no idea why she would be like that, but I am sure she has her reasons. Possibly selfish, or possibly something totally different. Try to talk to her one on one to see. But no matter what, do not take it to heart. I am afraid of family pushing and replies, so I admit, I haven't said anything to anyone in my family.

Welcome, Nancy! I swear that is really just something a lot of guys I know do. They really seem to not want to plan out. Granted that is a generalization, but a lot seem to be that way. My DH is quite the opposite. He plans and I am more reserved I just wish you luck

I think it is nearly time to go to sleep... I hope you all have a great night

 

[WannabeRockerMom]

I've looked at some baby names online. I like to look at names with meanings too. And I want something unusual. I like Drina Celeste for a girl or Broderick for a boy. But I'll probably change my mind a million times.

 

[beckmrk04]

Elaine- it's good news that there's no bad news, and I hope it stays that way!!!

Nancy- Welcome to the group. I agree with Elaine, guys are just like that. I kind of got frustrated that my DH didn't want to devour "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" with me; he wasn't really into reading every pregnancy book known to woman. He was more "I'll prepare when there's something to prepare for." Which to most people makes total sense but to crazy control-freak me, I couldn't understand it. So, finally I accepted his laid back-relaxed approach (which actually did me worlds of good), and I took over the planning and learning and reading. Good luck to you!

Wannabe- Darn moms. Some of them really know how to push a sensitive button. The thing is, you have to decide what's right for you. That's up to you and your DH- I mean, you'll be raising the kid! I have a gut feeling that your mom is just worried for you because she knows its hard to raise a child and she wants it to be as easy for you as it could possibly be (which, let's face it, is unrealistic). No one can predict what the future holds. But we all muddle through. I'm sure that your mom will be thrilled once she realizes that this is what you really want and that you are perfectly capable of having a child. Probably makes her sad that yet another of her children really is grown up, you know? Til then, rest easy. Moms have a way of coming around, usually.

 

[DMickey28]

Elaine, I am glad things are looking better.... those tests can be a pain... continued prayers for a sticky baby from me...

Nancy, Welcome!! My DH is very much the same. Even know he won't really get into looking at baby stuff and planning the nursery. He entertains me but until we know boy/girl he basically just thinks we have all the time in the world!!! I am already looking at strollers and carseats, comparing brands and safety, deciding what I want then changing that the next day!!! Maybe I am a little bit compulsive! Good Luck!!!

 

[beckmrk04]

Elaine, I am glad things are looking better.... those tests can be a pain... continued prayers for a sticky baby from me...

Nancy, Welcome!! My DH is very much the same. Even know he won't really get into looking at baby stuff and planning the nursery. He entertains me but until we know boy/girl he basically just thinks we have all the time in the world!!! I am already looking at strollers and carseats, comparing brands and safety, deciding what I want then changing that the next day!!! Maybe I am a little bit compulsive! Good Luck!!!

LOL! I did that too.

Well, it especially made me feel better when I was really sick. In fact, when I was able to be out of bed, I would sit at my mom's computer and make Wish lists on Target.com and Babies'r'us.com. Then, a few weeks ago, once I finally felt good enough to go on a short outing, I made DH takeme to Babies'R'Us and we registered, even though it's SOOOOOO early to do that. But just picking out baby stuff made me less resentful that I was so sick and miserable for what should have been a joyful time.

 

[Conservative Hippie]

Hey Beckmrk04!! Update the OP with a QOTD!! I want to know everyone's favorite lotion for firming, toning, and avoiding stretch marks. Do I stick with St. Ives Firming? Palmer's for stretch marks? Or do I pay $30 for Earth Mama Body Butter? What is your favorite firming lotion?

 

[beckmrk04]

Hey Beckmrk04!! Update the OP with a QOTD!! I want to know everyone's favorite lotion for firming, toning, and avoiding stretch marks. Do I stick with St. Ives Firming? Palmer's for stretch marks? Or do I pay $30 for Earth Mama Body Butter? What is your favorite firming lotion?

OMG. Once I got pregnant I was so sick I didn't even post here for over a month, and since I got back I have not updated the OP once! I'm terrible.

I should probably update the BFPs too.

 

[PoohPrincess76]

Hi all. Just wanted to send hugs and baby dust to all. Welcome to all the new girls. I have been lurking a bit, posting every once in a while, but, did want to give a quick update. DH and I decided to wait until Jan.1 to start trying. We are going to DLR on Jan. 11 so we don't want to miss out on some of the rides. DH hasn't been in 14 years and we figured 2 months longer wouldn't hurt. I am ok with it, as long as he doesn't push it out again. Although I have to say, we went to Baby's R Us to get his cousin a shower gift and he choose the stroller, car seat, crib and bouncey seat he liked. So, that is a good sign. He will discuss names with me a bit, but, can't get him to settle on a boys name. But, we have time.

 

[beckmrk04]

OK- the OP is updated with ConservativeHippie's QOTD.

I bought the Palmer's Cocoa butter. Honestly, most stuff that I have read says that stretch marks are genetic and really- you can't prevent them. SO, I bought the cocoa butter stretch mark cream since it was cheap and I figured at least it wouldn't hurt anything.

And here's the problem- I HATE the smell of it. SO I never use it. I probably wouldn't anyway because I am so flipping lazy and I have been so sick that I could really care less about stretch marks (I already had them from puberty anyway, when I sprouted overnight).

 

[Syrreal]

QOTD- I use aveeno baby lotion- the unscenented one- on my belly. I am prone to stretchmarks (always have been) but you can't see them b/c they don't get red, just skin color

On age- my mom was 35 when she had me- then 2 months later got pg with my brother and had him at 36. She actually got pg a 3rd time at 42 but ended up having a m/c.

 

[AllyandJack]

Welcome to more new people! Word must be getting out that this is THE place to come to get pregnant.

Elaine, I'm so happy you got good news. I stopped with the HPTs, too. I figured the spotting stopped, so let's just leave it alone. I cramped through the entire 2ww and, even though everyone says it's normal, it's never been anything good for me. This time was different, so I no longer think cramps are the end of things. Are you going back for a repeat tomorrow?

I noticed the gender-specific items at WDW, too. When I went down for Super Soap last year, I shopped for my best friend's baby shower and she was having a boy. Everything was either pink or blue. I DID manage to find a yellow bib, which I bought for the medical assistant at my RE's office - she was due about a month later and chose not to find out the sex. But, it was Pooh. Thankfully, she loved Pooh.

I decided to make an appearance at work today. I've been gone for 3 weeks and it's like I never left. I could probably disappear for months at a time and nobody would notice and I could just show up again and pick up where I left off. I don't get paid for the time I'm out, but it's really been a blessing with everything I've been through. I'm not looking forward to the progesterone suppository in the bathroom stall. People are going to wonder what I'm doing to myself in there.

 

[SDFgirl]

Nancy- Welcome to the group. I agree with Elaine, guys are just like that. I kind of got frustrated that my DH didn't want to devour "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" with me; he wasn't really into reading every pregnancy book known to woman.

I just don't understand WHY they don't want to read it!!

I did the exact same thing with TCOYF. I think the last straw was when I showed DH the full-color photograph of the cervix with the CM leaking out! He hasn't touched the book since.

Thanks for all the kind welcomes, everyone.

 

[kellyf2626]

Elaine...good to hear that things are still looking good. I will be thinking of you!

Wannabe....Isn't it amazing how one comment from a mom can just bring you down? I think Becky is right about how she is just worrying for you - but she needs to understand that ultimately it is you and DH's decision. I am sure she will come around.

Well, I held back and didn't test this morning. It took all my might, but I figured I would wait another day and see what happens. I have had a lot of stomach/abdomen pain, but I think it is just gas (or AF coming). Who knows. DH doesn't understand how it is driving me crazy not knowing!! Everytime I go to the bathroom, I take a deep breath...waiting to see AF. But, nothing yet. We will see what today brings. My MIL is coming today from FL to stay with us for 2 weeks. So, that will keep me busy!

Have a good day everyone!!

 

[lil mermaid]

Welcome to all the new people! This is shaping up to be a really lucky thread.

Stretch marks - I really don't think that you can prevent them, as Becky said. I just used whatever kind of lotion that I had at the time, and never got any during pregnancy. My skin did feel itchy sometimes though, so the lotion felt good.

I had my Ultrascreen on Thursday. It is a wonderful test. For those of you not familiar with it, it is a screening test for Down Syndrome and Trisomy 13 & 18. It combines an ultrasound where they take measurements of the skin on the back of the neck (a thickness there can be a soft marker for genetic problems) and combine the results with the bloodwork that they take at the same time. They also factor in your age. The results give you your level of risk for these problems. So my results are 1 in 2,381 for DS (down from 1 in 120 for a woman my age) and 1 in 4,261 for T13 and T18 (down from 1 in 214.) Since I have such good results, I have opted NOT to do the amnio. It is a great test, much more accurate that the second trimester quad screen (with its notoriously high false positive rate) AND you get some cute pictures of your 12 week old little baby. The baby had a great heart rate of 167 and was hopping around and hiccupping (sp.)