Maybe it's me, the last 2 summers I have recieved invitations which to me are really tacky blatant request for money.
A few of you may remember last summer I was invited to my nieces wedding shower with my gift already picked out.
Yesterday I recieved an evite from the wife of a good friend I have known since 4th grade. it's his 50th bday. She's having a party for ~125 people.
on the evite she has a list of food dishes she is requesting you pick and committ to bring or make a monetary donation
first problem, you can't accept without picking a dish.
second, she makes mention that if you donate cash please be mindful of the cost of dinner in NYC. I guess that's her way of saying not to donate $10 bucks.
For me it's very simple, I'm old fashioned. if I invite you to a party UNLESS you are in on the planning, I'm providing food and drinks. If I can't afford a big blowout I'm not inviting 100 people.
Luckily, I have my vacation scheduled that week so I have an excuse for not showing.
My question is this,
Am I being overly sensitive about this? My sister says nowadays any thing goes and people can host a party requesting whatever they want. She says she's going and not bringing a thing.