ANOTHER Adventure in Autism (4/15) A Taste of What's to Come...

Katdocnorf: This will probably be long, so I'll PM 'ya! ;)

ilovemickeytown: Thanks, oh and I love the animation in your siggie! :thumbsup2

*CheshireCat*: Gosh, more tears! I'll try to make you all laugh a little next time if I can!

Kathy
 
Hey Kathy,
I was hoping you would start this soon, I am really looking forward to the Pre-Trip and the trip report.

How cool that you will get to spend time with your sister and her family while you are down there.

To bad you are missing Linnie the Pooh and the kids by a month.

Remember to take lots of pictures, you know how we like pictures here.
 
Okay, everyone, let’s all take a deep cleansing breath…big inhale…okay, now, hold it…. now, everybody exhale… That’s better!

So many of you wrote back that you were sniffling after my first installment; it reminded me of how I used to cry at the drop of a hat when I was pregnant. We’d be watching TV and a General Foods International Coffee commercial would come on or, …. even worse…. a commercial for Hallmark Cards, and Ed would look over to see me fumbling for the tissue box and just bawling my eyes out! Over a commercial! Ed would be laughing at me and I would try to explain:

Sniffle* sniffle* "Oh, at first she thought her son wasn’t going to be able to come home for the holidays…sniffle*…and now he came home…sniffle* sniffle*and now they can all be together and isn’t it wonderful? I don’t know what I’d do if our son couldn’t make it home, it just wouldn’t be Christmas…" sniffle* sniffle*

“Kathy, the baby’s not even born yet and you’re crying because he may not make it home for Christmas someday??” he would shake his head, laughing while I dabbed my eyes with a tissue.

"Well, I can just imagine how that mother would feel, that’s all…"

Then he would smile indulgently and pat my arm. “I love you, honey.”


So thanks, everyone, for sharing my happy tears…I know that you are putting yourselves in my place and I really appreciate your :grouphug:


And now, back to the plans:

A Brief Recap:

The Who: My family, my sister’s family
The What: Family vacation to WDW
The When: “Jersey Week”, 11/3 – 11/11.

(If you're a DISer, the Why is obvious! :goodvibes )

Next up: The Where! Where do we want to stay??

I know, I know… I gave it away already. Sheesh! Can’t slip anything past you guys! :rolleyes:

As you may already know, or you may not (so I’ll tell you), we’ve been DVC members for about 2-1/2 yrs. Eventually we want to try *every* one of the DVC resorts at WDW! Last year, it was Old Key West, which we loved for its spaciousness and laid-back atmosphere. The year before that it was Saratoga Springs, our home resort, which although it was still in under construction, was very beautiful and extremely convenient to Downtown Disney.

This year we set our sights on the Villas at Wilderness Lodge! (VWL)

We had the opportunity to see the grandeur and beauty of The Lodge first hand back in 2005 when we took the kids to eat at Whispering Canyon Café. You know, the one restaurant where you should never, ever, ask for ketchup! :laughing: Even though the towering lobby was impressive, it still had a very warm and homey feel to it. I just knew that one day we would have to stay there!

Now, if you’re not too familiar with DVC operations, let me explain how we needed to make our reservation: DVC members can use their points to stay at any of the DVC resorts at any time of year. But it isn’t always easy to stay just anywhere you please at any time. Our “home” resort is Saratoga Springs (SSR). No earlier than 11 months from your check-out date, you can make a reservation at your home resort.

If you decide you want to stay at someone else’s “home resort”, you need to wait an additional four months to reserve. This way, people get a fair first shot at staying at their own home resort before other members can. After the 7 month “window” opens, the villas are open to all members for reservations.

You see, some DVC members really like to stay at only one resort, usually their “home” over and over, while other members like to bounce around and try different resorts. Our family likes to bounce! :bounce: Ed, especially, loves trying out new resorts. Thus, we like to experience a new resort each time, if we can.

The only glitch comes when you run into problems with Supply and Demand. SSR, for example, is very large and now consists of 1260 units. By comparison, VWL is quite intimate, with only 136 units available to go around. Obviously, it’s a lot easier for SSR to accommodate non-home resort members than it is for VWL! And its not only resort size that influences the supply; time of year also plays a role.

Our vacation falls during the last week of the incredibly popular Food & Wine Festival at Epcot. Naturally, there is a greater demand for the Epcot area DVC resorts at this time. Boardwalk Villas has 532 units, while the Beach Club Villas offers a mere 205. These are the “E-Ticket” resorts during the F&WF because they are in walking distance to Epcot’s International Gateway and the World Showcase.

So, flashback to mid-Winter, 2007: We make a reservation for a 2-bedroom villa at SSR, our DVC “home.” I would be happy to leave it at that, but Ed has the itch to try something new. So as we approach the 7-month mark, we need to decide between the three untried resorts that are left. Thinking that it would be too difficult to get into the Epcot resorts, we opt to try for VWL.

I make the call and find out, not unexpectedly, that only about half of our nights are available. This is where it gets tricky, especially for someone like me who loves security and hates to gamble. :worried: Now we become like contestants on the DVC version of the Deal or No Deal show!

We *only* have enough points for one 1-week reservation. (If we had lots and lots of points, it wouldn’t be such an issue…I’d keep the one ressie and start a second.) But we do not have this luxury. So now, the decision is this: do we give up half our ressie at SSR and trade it for half a week at VWL and go on waitlist for the rest?? :confused:

Hmmm. Well, at best, we spend the first half of the week at SSR and then the second half at VWL. Lots of people split their stays, it’s not so bad. In fact, it could be kind of fun to get the experience of two fabulous resorts in one week, right? That wouldn’t be so bad, right?

Wrong!!

I said that half our nights were available at VWL, I didn’t say they were all together!

What they had for us was this:

Fri / Sat = VWL
Sun through Wed = SSR
Thurs /Fri / Sat = VWL

Well, I might certainly consider packing up and moving everyone once, but I wasn’t willing to do it twice! Not with one elderly woman and an autistic child in our group… would it be worth the aggravation to try for the coveted VWL?? The reservationist from Member Services was waiting for my answer.

Deal or No Deal?

Kathy
 
; it reminded me of how I used to cry at the drop of a hat when I was pregnant. We’d be watching TV and a General Foods International Coffee commercial would come on or, …. even worse…. a commercial for Hallmark Cards,


Man do I remember those days. With our first daughter it was Ford Commercials, they would show one of the new F-250 and I would just sob uncontrollably, then with our second daughter it was the Chris Craft 32 foot open bow Boat with the 200 horsepower Evinrude Outboard….

I so understand :sad1:


Next up: The Where! Where do we want to stay??

Fort Wilderness in a Tent? :rotfl:


Well, at best, we spend the first half of the week at SSR and then the second half at VWL. Lots of people split their stays, it’s not so bad. In fact, it could be kind of fun to get the experience of two fabulous resorts in one week, right? That wouldn’t be so bad, right?

Wrong!!

I said that half our nights were available at VWL, I didn’t say they were all together!

What they had for us was this:

Fri / Sat = VWL
Sun through Wed = SSR
Thurs /Fri / Sat = VWL

I don’t understand the issue…:confused3.....if I was you I would try and throw in a few days at the Boardwalk also.

We love the Wilderness Lodge we have stayed there twice, not in the DVC section; I think you will be very pleased.

We did get to stay in the Boardwalk and SSR DVC sections and we liked Boardwalk a little better mostly because of the location, but both were nice. SSR is a little spread out as I am sure you know.

Looking forward to hearing what you decided.
 

Ack! The suspense! :scared: That just sounds so complicated! hehehe Hope you get what you want, and I totally understand the not wanting to make ANY moves once you get settled into your vacation home.
 
Hi! :wave2:

I just found the link to your report through another's pre-trip eport. I need to go back at some point and read your report from last year! I'm hoping you are able to get what you want for your resort. We stayed off-site in January and had to move due to room issues. What a pain in the hiney!

On a personal note...

Congratulations on your son saying, "I love you!" That had to have been so awesome for you. My family is just learning about autism. I have a cousin who was diagnosed two or three years ago. He is 8 1/2. I don't know his exact diagnosis, but it's not a severe form. He is very expressive and can communicate well. However, he has very high OCD tendencies. I know my aunt and uncle first found out once he started school. He absolutely hated it. My aunt and uncle couldn't understand why and started looking into it.

The school counselor, along with his pediatrician, came to the conclusion he is autistic. Once they had a name for it, they were able to deal with it. He goes to a small public school in PA and they have been awesome. He has been assigned a personal aide that works alongside him. He has developed leaps and bounds with this intervention. I know he can still only wear a certain brand of socks - no others will do. My grandmother doesn't understand this and keeps buying him the wrong brand. Also, he absolutely cannot wear any shirt with a tag in it. He is very meticulous with his toys but could care less about his older sister's. ;) He is such a sweet boy.

I amvery sorry to hear about your son's accident. How is he doing now? I hope he is feeling much better. Your daughter sounds like she is very good with him. That was too cute how all the girls got so excited about being in Disney together. Just something more to look forward to!! It's very interesting your sister booked their vacation for the same time. Isn't it amazing and scary how sister's think sometimes???

I look forward to reading more!!

Michelle
 
Man do I remember those days. With our first daughter it was Ford Commercials, they would show one of the new F-250 and I would just sob uncontrollably, then with our second daughter it was the Chris Craft 32 foot open bow Boat with the 200 horsepower Evinrude Outboard….


Keith: :laughing: That wasn't a LOL, that was a SLOL! (Snort-Laugh-Out-Loud!)

Marion: Keep popcorn::

mvazul: Billy's arm is as good as new, thanks!

Kathy
 
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Then he would smile indulgently and pat my arm. “I love you, honey.”

That Ed sure is a good man. Knows when to just say I love you and leave it at that AND goes to Disney many times with you. Now if we could just get him and my Bill to go on the Dis boards :rotfl:.
 
Well, I might certainly consider packing up and moving everyone once, but I wasn’t willing to do it twice! Not with one elderly woman and an autistic child in our group… would it be worth the aggravation to try for the coveted VWL?? The reservationist from Member Services was waiting for my answer.

Deal or No Deal?

Kathy

It would be a No Deal for me but I'm curious to hear what you decided.

Goofster said:
Man do I remember those days. With our first daughter it was Ford Commercials, they would show one of the new F-250 and I would just sob uncontrollably, then with our second daughter it was the Chris Craft 32 foot open bow Boat with the 200 horsepower Evinrude Outboard….

I so understand

:rotfl:

Some day Goofster......some day and I hope I'm around to hear all about it :wizard:
 
Wow. I just finished your 14pg trip report. It took me a day and a half. Now mayby I can go back to what i'm suppose to be doing:laundy: . You are such a good writer. Your'e family is great. I love how you explain about your sons autism. I understand it much better now. Can't wait to keep reading more. One question Were going to DW in Dec did you think TGM is worth it? Thanks again for taking the time to post your trip report. I laughed I cried and felt all warm and fuzzy inside.:thumbsup2 :grouphug:
 
I too cried... I'm a :teacher: and have had many students who are autistic.. and very dear to my heart! Can't wait to figure out where you are staying... and now I need to go and read your last report soon.

As for your sister's reason for not doing Disney till they are older... it is hard to pass up those sweet princess years... when they believe they are the princess, that is where we are at now with my oldest and I can't wait to take her to the world.
 
So many of you wrote back that you were sniffling after my first installment; it reminded me of how I used to cry at the drop of a hat when I was pregnant. We’d be watching TV and a General Foods International Coffee commercial would come on or, …. even worse…. a commercial for Hallmark Cards, and Ed would look over to see me fumbling for the tissue box and just bawling my eyes out! Over a commercial! Ed would be laughing at me and I would try to explain:

Sniffle* sniffle* "Oh, at first she thought her son wasn’t going to be able to come home for the holidays…sniffle*…and now he came home…sniffle* sniffle*and now they can all be together and isn’t it wonderful? I don’t know what I’d do if our son couldn’t make it home, it just wouldn’t be Christmas…" sniffle* sniffle*

“Kathy, the baby’s not even born yet and you’re crying because he may not make it home for Christmas someday??” he would shake his head, laughing while I dabbed my eyes with a tissue.

"Well, I can just imagine how that mother would feel, that’s all…"

Then he would smile indulgently and pat my arm. “I love you, honey.”


Kathy

:rotfl: :rotfl: I cried 3 times during my entire pregnancy. The first time was because DH put peas in the tuna casserole he made for dinner (You would think I would be happy that he found something to eat since our fridge died the night before)
The second time I was watching 444 days to freedom the Iran hostage crisis (DH told me I wasn't allowed to watch TV for the rest of the pregnancy)
The last time was when the puppy we got (yes I am a moron and got a puppy while pregnant:scared1: ) climbed to the top of the 6 foot book shef and I coldn't get her down......
I can relate to the hallmark commercial:thumbsup2

Glad you started your PTR, I really enjoyed you last one.

Janet
 
(yes I am a moron and got a puppy while pregnant:scared1: )

Janet

I got a puppy the day before my due date... I wanted a baby NOW!!! :mad: Then the baby was 6 days late, so the puppy was home a week with us before the baby came home. They were so cute together! :love:
 
Hi Kathy! It would definitely be a "no deal" for me. I like to have "all my ducks in a row" right from the very beginning! :rotfl: But, I'm guessing your waitlist came through for you?

Denise
 
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Pre-Trip #3: The Gambler"


I am not much of a risk-taker, so you could say that gambling is not in my nature.

For example, even though I’m a Jersey Girl, I’ve only been to Atlantic City twice in my whole life. The first time was when I took the State Board Examination for Nursing. All I did that weekend was study, study, study, take my exams, and leave right afterward. :faint: I had to work the next day.

The second time I went to AC was for pleasure, but it did not turn out to be very pleasurable. I was in my twenties then. My boyfriend and I drove down one night with another couple. He drove the 2-1/2 hours down and, since he was a fella who loved his beer, :drinking1 I was to be the designated driver on the way home. Our plan was to play in the casino for a few hours, grab a late dinner, and head home.

Eleven hours and a greasy $15 cheeseburger later, I finally managed to tear the rest of them away from the craps tables and pour them into my car. I kept myself awake by driving with the window down in the 30-degree weather, pinching myself, and stomping my left foot all the way up the Garden State Parkway. Never was I more relieved to finally collapse, safely, into my own bed. :worship:

And the worst part was that the entire night I had been bored stiff.

Watching your friends gamble all night when you have absolutely no interest in games of chance is not a whole lot of fun. Especially when you’re drinking club soda. Imagine Paris Hilton having to watch the Fishing Channel for eleven hours. Sober. She probably would have had more fun than I did that night. :rolleyes:

I suppose that I would rather spend my money on something nice….a show…a really good dinner….an afternoon in a spa….than risk throwing it away with a roll of the dice. But, that’s just me.


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“Mrs._____, do you wish to change your existing reservation, or leave it as it is?” The voice on the other end of the phone inquired abruptly.

Member Services was waiting.

“Uh, just a second,” I stalled, trying to decide which was the best deal.

Okay, so right now I had a guaranteed 7 nights at SSR in my “case.” It’s a beautiful, relaxing resort, for sure, but a resort at which we’ve stayed already. I’m looking at a case that contains two weekends at the VWL, a resort at which we’ve yet to stay and would very much like to, but with a waitlist situation for the middle of the week. VWL is so small….is there a reasonable chance that our waitlisted nights will come through? What are the odds?

“Think, think, think,” I mumbled to myself, sounding not unlike my favorite bear of very little brain. pooh: Suddenly, amidst all the fluff and stuffing inside my head, came a little voice that said, “Take a chance, you’ve really got nothing to lose!”

“Deal!!” I blurted out. “Er, I mean, yes! I’ll take those nights at the VWL!”

“Alright then,” she said matter-of-factly. “Let’s make the reservation at VWL and then cancel those nights at SSR, please hold.” I listened to the soft clickity-click-click of her keyboard and wondered; did this inexperienced gambler just make a sucker bet? :confused:

Kathy
 
:yay: :yay: What happens? What happens? I can't stand the suspense!!!

Just kidding, thank you so much for posting again. I really enjoy your writing and will wait patiently :surfweb: until my next email alerting me you have added to your report.
 
:yay: :yay: What happens? What happens? I can't stand the suspense!!!
QUOTE]

Yeah, what she said:goodvibes

I got a puppy the day before my due date... I wanted a baby NOW!!! :mad: Then the baby was 6 days late, so the puppy was home a week with us before the baby came home. They were so cute together! :love:
Glad to know I am not the only one. I just told DH that story, he just shook his head, mumbled something about women, and went back to reading his book:confused3
 
iluvmickeytown: I'm a huge TGM fan! :thumbsup2

tiggerbell: A puppy! That's a strange reaction to "nesting" :rotfl:

IluvXU: Teachers are my heros! :teacher:

blue: Glad you're here! If Buzz and Goof are going to hang around, I'm going to need all the help I can get! ::yes::

jcc0621: Those pesky hormones! :rolleyes:

praisehisname: Shhh! :ssst:

mrsksomeday: :laughing: I'm on the DIS so much, Ed barely can get to the computer to check his e-mails!

Thanks, everyone, for reading!
Kathy
 
WAIT....you just leave us hanging like that. Come on, that is not fair. I am patiently waiting to hear if you got everything you wanted.
 





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