Amy's Journal: Comments Welcome!

:hug: Amy,

You and Dan will make the right decision. :goodvibes Maybe the teacher in question won't even be there next year. :thumbsup2 I know how heavily this is weighing on your mind.... :hug:

Great job on the points, Amy! Keep up the good work!:cheer2:

Off to send you a PM......:hug:
 
Yes, that is a stressful situation indeed. I think you need to have a heart-to-heart with the yucky teacher, as awful as that may be. Especially if you know she is going to be there next year. Switching schools might be really hard at this age, I'm sure DD has all her friends and she would really miss them. Have you had her tested again? Maybe it would shed some light. It sounds like it's been a while. I'm sorry I don't have any advice for you! Now if you had a gifted kid with bizarre behavior problems, I could give you ALL KINDS of tips!!! :lmao: What does DD think of all this?

At least you are sticking within your points. I know you don't have the most ideal carb-protein-fat ratio right now, but at least you aren't just going off the deep end. Hang in there and give little Daisy a hug. It'll make you feel better!!! :hug:
 
Now if you had a gifted kid with bizarre behavior problems, I could give you ALL KINDS of tips!!! :lmao: What does DD think of all this?

Got one of those too! Ds has an incredibly high i.q. and can really crank out the stellar work when he wants. He also is a bit o.c.d. and has his share of bizarre behaviors! I can't win. DD in some ways likes the idea of changing schools since she wouldn't be known as the "dumb kid". I feel so sad that she feels thats who she is! Her track only has one class per grade so she has been with these same kids for five years now and they all know each others strengths and weaknesses. Since she's always in the low reading and math groups and sometimes the only one to not receive the reading and math awards she feels like it would be nice to leave that reputation behind. But she is more worried about losing her friends and having a new environment to get used to. I really think she is going to stay put. Since we are off track the soonest I can meet with the teacher(s) is after the deadline to enroll her in another school. I don't want to jump from the pan to the fire. I am just going to have to hope for the best and really let this teacher know that I am watching and that I am not happy. There's always a higher up to go to, as well, and I don't mind doing it if I need to. Thanks for the insights! I think our ds' must have been born around the same time under the same sign or something. They sound very similar. And Daisy does make me feel better, she's so sweet. And doesn't have a wacko teacher giving me fits!
 
DS is a Taurus (4/23). You'll get through this and so will DD. And I bet she'll be a stronger person for it, even if it's tough for her now. As long as she is doing her best, that is all you can ask for!

Be sure you take out all of your frustrations on the treadmill, not the fridge!! :goodvibes
 

DS is a Taurus (4/23).
Be sure you take out all of your frustrations on the treadmill, not the fridge!! :goodvibes

Good advice ;)

sending lots of :hug: ,
its a tough decision, i agree with lovinaz this needs to be discussed with the teacher & if your not happy go higher.
Your body is proberbly craving the extra carbs due to stress & TOM, at least you stayed within your points so dont stress over it :)

I really hope everything works out for your DD, being in the teaching profession this kind of thing really gets to me :guilty:
Just make sure DD gets lots of love & praise at home, & i dont doubt for a second that she doesnt, your a super, caring mum, i'm sure it will all work out in the end :goodvibes
 
Thank you everyone. I will talk to the teacher, actually both of them but can't do anything until we track back on. I wish the district would have advertised this Feb. 1 deadline for open enrollment so that I could have more time. It used to be later. I talked with another friend today who has a kid in this class and is a teacher and she gave me some good tips. Namely to go in observe and volunteer and also to go the ***'t Principle if need be who is better at handling this type of thing. So I will do that. Of course I haven't been volunteering as much because of my time/responsibilties with my mom. But dd has to take priority and I know my mom would be the first to say that if she was in her right mind. As it is, she might not feel that way but that can't be helped. I think I can juggle it all around and make it work. If not, I may just drink heavily and invest in future therapy for dd for her screwed up elementary years! It'll all work out.

Food today was good:
Breakfast: energy bar and skim milk (6)
Lunch: chicken veggie soup (4), Kashi TLC Crackers (1)
Snack: Yogurt (1)
Dinner: Stuffed chicken breast (6), garlic bread (2), mashed potatoes (5), green beans (0)
Snack: high fiber cereal (1)
Total for the day: 26, 2 points under.
Water: 64 oz, two cups of green tea, one diet coke
Exercise: 25 minutes on the treadmill (love my shorter workouts and I am actually doing it more often. One raunchy episode of Sex and the City and I am done. I have increased my intensity which I can do for these shorter workouts).

Weigh in tomorrow. I think my carb fest of the weekend may affect the scale and I know TOM is about to hit like a freight train so I am not too hopeful. But I am still going. If you hear a loud shriek tomorrow at 9:00 MST its me wailing with sadness that I blew it this week! I had some good days but at my age I am finding "some" is not enough. I have to be legal all the time or it doesn't happen!
 
Hi Amy
I had a go at a shorter more intense workout & think i prefer that too :)
I will be listening for that shriek - the shriek of happiness at losing or maintaining - think positive :)
If the worst happens at least most or all of it will be down to TOM & will dissapear as quickly as it came :)
 
Your food was awesome yesterday!! And dare I ask how the weigh-in went? I'm sure it wasn't as bad as you thought, it rarely is!

Good idea volunteering in the classroom. It doesn't have to be every day, just once or twice a week. I'm sure you can make time for everything you have to do.

That is wonderful that you are getting more intense workouts in! And if it is easier to get more shorter workouts in, it has to be a good thing. I bet you are getting the same number of minutes, if not more, by doing it this way. Keep it up!!! :cool1:
 
Amy sorry I haven't been around. Your DD's situation is tough. I think the idea of volunteering in the classroom (and make sure it is IN classroom stuff, not copy machine stuff!) is a good one. Sounds like you definitely need to have a sit down with the teacher(s) and then maybe the A. Principal (don't want to get ***'s :rotfl: ). I know the deadline is Feb. 1, but if needed, can't you make your request afterward for a "waitlist?" It may also be that DD needs to be tested again now that she is older. When we had DD11 tested (in third grade, I think), we had some surprising results. Turns out she has a processing disorder. But since she is also incredibly bright, she had been compensating for it wherever she could, and it wasn't showing up in bad grades overall. She would get either A's or F's on assignments, rarely anything in between, averaging out to B's. It was very frustrating. She felt like she was "dumb" even though the exact opposite is true. We have learned some coping skills that have really helped all of us. It is actually how she got started in swimming. With swimming she has to coordinate her arm movement, leg movement and breathing all in the right sequence. It pushes the "processing" part of her brain in a non-academic way. That was longwinded, sorry. It is just something to think about.

Great job keeping in your points and getting the exercise in, in spite of all the teacher stress! :cheer2: :cheer2: :cheer2:
 
Hi WISH sis,

Volunteering in your DD's classroom sounds like a great idea! That way, you can get an idea of how the teacher interacts with the students. Keep on trusting Him, Amy.... It will all work out!:thumbsup2

I weighed in this morning and was shocked to see that I was down a pound!:scared1: Sending some :wizard: :wizard: for your weigh in too.:goodvibes

Hope you have a great Thursday!:goodvibes
 
Thanks everyone, I think the suggestion that dd be tested again is a good one. She hasn't been in over a year. Maybe something of value can be learned. Maybe the teacher should be tested too!

Weigh in not so good, I was up .4 So almost half a pound. TOM and carbs are the likely culprits. I stayed within points all week, although I did use all of my flex points but then thats okay and what they are for. Some weeks are just going to be like that. The good news is that I no longer weigh myself and I went knowing that in all liklihood I would be up. I think the workouts, water, veggies and fiber (13 g of fiber in each of those servings of cereal I have been eating) all helped balance out the TOM gain. Maybe next week will show a nice loss. Hope so.

Food today thus far:
Breakfast: 2 pts bar (2)
Lunch: salad with turkey, shredded cheese,oil and vinegar (6), chicken veggie soup (4) Kashi crackers (2)
Snack: popcorn (2)

I have 12 points left for dinner, dh and I usually eat out at either Rumbi Grille or Chipotle on Wed nites why the kids are at church. So that leaves me enough for a salad there and maybe some chips and salsa.

ETA: Dinner:
Chipotle: Rice (5.5), cheese (3) Steak (5.5) Chips (3) Lettuce and Salsa (0) Total for this meal: 17
Total for the day: 33
Five flex points used. Chipotle had more points than I thought it would, should have checked Dottie's site before I ate or gone to my old standby Rumbi Grill!
 
Hi Amy,

Please don't worry too much about the .4 gain....:hug: My guess is that TOM is the culprit... I bet next week the scale will show a good loss for you because you are doing a wonderful job!:thumbsup2

Have a great time with your DH tonight!:love:
 
Sounds like you definitely need to have a sit down with the teacher(s) and then maybe the A. Principal (don't want to get ***'s :rotfl: ).

Oh I just reread my post and see that the filter thought my Assistant abbreviation was a swearword! Busted but it was innocent I swear! Your dd's thing sounds very similar to mine. Her grades are all over the place, makes me wonder.
 
I think you should print out all the points for your favorite restaurants, so you can pick in advance what you are going to get. That'll take all the guesswork out of it!

Don't worry about the .4lbs. That's nothing! I'll toss you my 3lbs that popped up over night if you really want to have something to complain about! :lmao:

You are doing really good tracking everything, keep it up!
 
Hi Amy
I definatly think Tom is to blame & .4 is nothing,
i predict a loss next week :)
 
Amy, I actually have a sheet I printed out from Dotties site in my car. Problem is that Chipotle has clearly changed their portions or something, the points are much higher now. I came home and decided to just double check since things seemed bigger the last couple of times and yes indeed its higher since Dottie has posted her "update" for that restaurant. So I guess the moral of the story is that in keeping with Americans and their love of food and pigging out they decided to up their sizes. And you can keep your three pounds, I have plenty of pounds of my own! I think your three pounds will go down the potty when you shed the TOM water gain!

Tracey: Thanks, I am always happy to blame anything on TOM!

Today was pretty good. I ate okay but did use another 2 flex points. I was just really hungry all day. Got my walk in today, I have walked every day this week so that is good.

Breakfast: Slim Fast: (4)
Snack: ff/sf pudding (1) cereal (1)
Lunch: 2 slices of turkey (1), TCL crackers (2), chicken strips (7)
Snack: Popcorn (2), vanilla wafers (3)
Dinner: Chicken, rice and veggie casserole (8), large salad (1)
Total: 30

Pretty good week, managed to not totally lose it with dd's school stress. Good news is that ds got a great report card, he is really focused right now. He is off to a church retreat this weekend, his first trip without mom and dad! I will miss him but am really excited for him to go.

Tomorow will have some major challenges. I am going out to eat with my mom in the morning before I take her to the doctor. I suggested we eat breakfast before her appt., instead of lunch after. My plan is to get cereal and avoid the whole eggs/bacon/pancakes thing. This is the same place we went last time and their lunch menu has nothing healthy which is why I suggested breakfast. Secondhallenge is that dh and I are going out just the two of us tomorrow night with friends. Our friends are like us, they love to eat and drink! And they suggested mexican food so thats going to be tough and I know I will have at least two Coors Lights. But I want to have fun so I am going to just do the best I can. I have 22 flex points and if I eat very light during the day I should be fine. But then I will have to be very disciplined over the weekend. That .4 loss was good because it might make me behave a bit since I don't want a gain two weeks in a row. I am really hoping for a five pound per month loss and since this next week is the last weigh in for January its my last time to accomplish that. So we'll see. I need to learn to deal with eating out and social gatherings and surving them both without going hog wild!
 
Hey girl,:hug:

You are doing a great job this week!:thumbsup2 I hope today goes well for you.:goodvibes

Have a great weekend!:cool1:
 
:thumbsup2 Great job getting a walk in each day! :cool1: :cheer2: :cool1: You are food looks good too. Chipotle is good, but the portions are huge. My big snack right now is apples. They were on special at the store so I bought a bunch. They are easy to take with me, filling, high fiber, no fat, and counts as a fruit too.

Good Luck this weekend. Put the chips on the other side of the table - You can do it!!
 
You are doing great with your walking!!! :cool1: And I know you can stick to your plans this weekend. I agree with Anna, STAY AWAY from the chips at the Mexican place, they are not worth it!!!!!!!

You did great by not stress eating. Someone brought in cookies today and I didn't have any problems avoiding them this morning, but now that I am all wound up, I can't stop thinking about them! it's great that you are not letting emotions control your eating, keep it up!
 





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