Neil Lambert (Adam's brother) posts on another forum (Something Awful Forum) and some of his comments might be of interest for the Lambertini's here.
From Jan. 09
"Listen, ladies: Adam is gay. You need to stop asking him to be your boyfriend because that doesn't really compute for him. All is not lost! We're brothers and I'm straight. It's practically the same thing."
From May 16:
"What pi**es me off is that people think he's not talking about it (his sexuality) because he's scared of what'll happen. Look at the loving TV and tell me he's scared of weirding people out. Yeah right.
The truth is, American Idol shouldn't be about the contestants' silly personal stories. Had Danny Gokey not gone the Pity Party route, he would've been out sooner because he's just not that exciting of a singer. I don't want to see Adam on-screen whimpering about how hard it is to be a gay man in America because it doesn't have to do with his singing. Adam didn't want to fuse a sob story into his Idol persona. He wants to sing and entertain, not make people vote for him out of sympathy. "
May 20:
"I was talking to Adam earlier and he reconfirmed that he really does want to win this. So, I'm giving as much support as I can. And, with your help, he can succeed in his mission! He’s up against the ‘safe’ choice. The guy is talented and nice and not scary and weird. Adam is talented and weird. I want someone like that to win. Also, I love my brother and want him to sing.
If you share this goal, which I hope you do, please vote for my brother.
Katie Holmes showed up with Suri for one song, Adam's Change is Gonna Come, and then left."
May 21:
"I had to keep reminding myself that this outcome is the best possible outcome. It was only a selfish pride thing that I wanted to see Adam win, but truthfully Kris needed the win and Adam didn't. loving SLASH wants to work with him. Queen? Tons of producers. He'll be fine.
I'd be happy to give you guys updates but I don't know how I'd do that. I guess post in TVIV even though it's not strictly regarding a TV show? If this thread stays open I could post here too.
The nerves finally hit me at the big reveal, but I wasn't surprised. I mean, dialidol had informed me of their fate the night before. My mom I was worried about, but she was ok too. The thing is,
seeing the utter joy and complete shock from the Allens was really nice. After the show they were hugging and kissing their family and friends and it was simply wonderful. I'm very happy for them. Kris' brother's a good guy and we both occupied that my-brother-is-on-idol space so it was nice to watch him finish that journey. Kris' father's name is Neil as well, so I have a special affection for him too.
And hell, Kris is talented. Like I've always said, the only thing that would have sent me flying into a rage would have been a Gokey victory.
Plus, who loving cares who won? My brother just sang on stage with QUEEN AND KISS HOLY SH**T. I don't think he could have been happier. The entire show, actually, was pretty damned entertaining. The afterparty was good too.
I'll have you all know that Megan and I did have a nice conversation
I have plenty to say on this topic, but I'll say this: f*** American Idol. The production staff are all very nice people, the contestants for the most part are cool. The only thing I hate is the audience. Not those of us that sit around and simply talk/make fun. I'm talking about the incessantly screaming tweens. I had to sit on the set of American Idol Extra to watch Adam's exit interview and I couldn't handle it. I actually left and went around the corner to have a drink with Adam's/Allison's hair stylist and a former Idol contestant, much to Mom's chagrin.
I mean really, what the f**** kids? STOP SCREAMING THEIR NAMES. Perhaps I've never been a 12 year old girl (perhaps), but I just don't understand the idea of screaming someone's name in a vain effort to get their attention instead of actually listening to what they're saying or paying attention to the show. Great, you're having fun. But it's at everyone's expense. These are the people that fuel idol for the most part and for that reason I'm glad Adam didn't win. Perhaps I sound really arrogant here but I think he's bigger than this show. I want him to do bigger things than this. I want him to get an awesome producer and a few band members who can tear sh**t up.
So there's my rant. Favorite ***? moment: for 2 hours of the taping of Idol Extra, Christian Bale sat on the side of the set just shooting the breeze with some guy. It was bizarre. He wasn't there for the show, he was just... there. Maybe his kid was one of those shrieking idiots, but I can't imagine the child of a movie star being that way. So... what gives Christian? "