Am I?

[DisGirlAllie]

Honestly, if I went to your school, most likely I'd consider you a slut. 22 guys in the span of 7 months? That's ridiculous. If you don't quit you're probably going to have a HORRIBLE reputation. If I saw a girl date that many people in such a short period of time, I would assume she's doing something to get all of those guys, if you know what I mean. Brutally honest, but you asked.

Fair enough.

 

[pride4pride]

I have no idea what that means but I'll just say yes to the second part!
Crazy2Beautiful- When you're as skinny as me at my school you're considered it.

okay. i am a dude. Well, my ex had her friends come up to break up with me and i didn't understand why she didn't just tell me. i confronted her about it and say okay and didn't fell sad at all. sorry just had to tell you a sort of same experiance. it was really wrong of him to call you the "s" word. people shouldn't judge other people like that. you tried to warn him and he should have been thankful. but i guess just because u went out with a lot of guy's he thought you were one. don't think just because you are skinny you are one. I have had people hate me just because i'm skinny but i can't help it i have fast metabolism. You probably have it to. you did the right thing though. Don't listen to what other people say, just go on with your life and enjoy it because they are the people who are just obstacles in your path of making your life better. have a good day!

 

[DisGirlAllie]

okay. i am a dude. Well, my ex had her friends come up to break up with me and i didn't understand why she didn't just tell me. i confronted her about it and say okay and didn't fell sad at all. sorry just had to tell you a sort of same experiance. it was really wrong of him to call you the "s" word. people shouldn't judge other people like that. you tried to warn him and he should have been thankful. but i guess just because u went out with a lot of guy's he thought you were one. don't think just because you are skinny you are one. I have had people hate me just because i'm skinny but i can't help it i have fast metabolism. You probably have it to. you did the right thing though. Don't listen to what other people say, just go on with your life and enjoy it because they are the people who are just obstacles in your path of making your life better. have a good day!

That's low. That's extremely low.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

you're in sixth grade???

wow. like no offense, but seriously. people are taking "dating" wayyy too young these days. like ik some people who "went out" in like 5th grade. they just liked each other. it's crazy sometimes.

and yeah. i think if you just have a boyfriend for a week, and then get bored. that is a little slutty.

and i think josh will forgive you by tommorrow. especially if he realizes what's good for him.

 

[Loves Disney]

6 grade is not the age to be dating that frequently. Are you sure it's "dating"? Or do you just "hold hands" with different guys each week, so to speak?

I think if you want to maintain a healthy reputation at school, take dating seriously and slow down a bit. If you are willing to date 22 guys over the span of 7 months and are in 6th grade...perhaps this reputation is what you want because you can't except to receive appropriate respect that you are looking for by epitomizing the reputation you don't want.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

"Being totally wild and crazy" like how?

Yea long story.

 

[CastawayJ]

wait two years without being in a relationship and make evaluations during that time

then, ask someone and it will go much better

 

[DisneyGirl421]

Ok, I'm going to be brutally honest, so please don't get offended.

First off, you are in 6th grade. SLOW DOWN. Yes, your view of 'dating' is probably not the true meaning of it, but that is besides the point.

In high school, if girls (and guys) saw you dating 22 guys in the span of 6ish months, you will most likely be labeled as a slut or a serial dater. True, (or at least I hope!)all you will probably do with the guys is make out with them, but still, people talk. Girls talk. Being a girl yourself, you know just how much girls talk, and it only gets worse as you get older.

So please, I advise you, take it slow. Relationships take time, they aren't just a 'weekly fling'. And you are young. I'm sorry to say, even though you think you've dated 22 guys, you do not know what a true relationship is. Wait until you are a little older... because if you continue to do this, it will probably wind up causing more damage than it is worth.

Sorry to offend you, but you did ask for our opinions. and hope I helped.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

6th graders view of "dating" these days is a lot different than it was when I was in 6th grade...6 years ago.
And even then there were some bad girls around.
Hopefully you don't get that way.

 

[Mur13]

I;m of the opinion, that it's...freakin... 6th grade. If you live in a reasonably large time you'll never see these people after 6th grade. 6th and 7th grade is akward for everyone.

Besides, 6th grade guys have no idea what the hell they're talking about. They're heading into teenage and they feel they have to act like badasses or something. They try to start fights and stuff, are terrible to girls, etc. I observed this last year when I had to take band with them. DOn't worry about it.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I;m of the opinion, that it's...freakin... 6th grade. If you live in a reasonably large time you'll never see these people after 6th grade. 6th and 7th grade is akward for everyone.

Besides, 6th grade guys have no idea what the hell they're talking about. They're heading into teenage and they feel they have to act like badasses or something. They try to start fights and stuff, are terrible to girls, etc. I observed this last year when I had to take band with them. DOn't worry about it.

Actually, she will probably have a good part of the students go to the same Middle School or whatever with her.

On the subject if you are a slut or not, like I said I don't know you, I don't know the circumstances, but I think you should slow down.

 

[Mur13]

Actually, she will probably have a good part of the students go to the same Middle School or whatever with her.

On the subject if you are a slut or not, like I said I don't know you, I don't know the circumstances, but I think you should slow down.

Well, that really depends. I live in a medium-large city (Shreveport, Louisiana) and I go to High School with maybe 12 of the 500 people I went to middle school with

 

[BabyPiglet]

First of all, she's going from Elementary to Middle I think.

Well around here I went to Junior High with pretty much all of my Elementary people. Because we all lived in the same district, so we pretty much had to go to the same JH. And we only had 2 High schools. One on the Southside, one on the Northside.

 

[CrazyChik]

here popular= goes out with everyone guy going, skinny, wears all te cool brands(here mckenzie, lonsdale and goldigga), mean to everyone who isn't popular.

well no offence but you do sound slutty, although i don't know so i really can't pass judgement.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

First of all, she's going from Elementary to Middle I think.

Well around here I went to Junior High with pretty much all of my Elementary people. Because we all lived in the same district, so we pretty much had to go to the same JH. And we only had 2 High schools. One on the Southside, one on the Northside.

Actually around here Elementary is kindergarten through fifth, middle is sixth through eighth, and High school is nineth through twelth. (or however you spell it)

 

[DisGirlAllie]

here popular= goes out with everyone guy going, skinny, wears all te cool brands(here mckenzie, lonsdale and goldigga), mean to everyone who isn't popular.

well no offence but you do sound slutty, although i don't know so i really can't pass judgement.

Fair enough.

P.S. my nicer, and better friends aren't popular.

 

[Jasmine45]

You're in 6th grade and you went out with 22 guy???? I had like one "boyfriend" in 6th grade. He talked to me like once and than broke up with me

 

[DisGirlAllie]

You're in 6th grade and you went out with 22 guy???? I had like one "boyfriend" in 6th grade. He talked to me like once and than broke up with me

I'm sorry.

 

[minnie_2006]

no offence but woah...22 guys in the space of 6 months is not good!!! Seriously, please don't take offence but you're young! Dating for your age is probably to look cool. People your age only want a boyfriend as a kind of accessory...they don't fancy or love each other!! And dating so many guys is kinda attention seeking...you want people to talk about you...and they will!! But they won't neccessarily say nice things!! Now don't get me wrong, you seem like an amazin girl but people won't see that side of you if you continue being like this!! Why do you have to be a popular kid to feel happy? Hang out with nice people. By that I mean, people who are loyal, trustworthy, friendly and act their age! Don't worry about a boyfriend!! Enjoy being young. That special guy will come along some day and it will be so special!! So don't rush into anything!! Friends definitely come first! Friends are forever...boys are whatever!! If a guy asks you out...think do I like him cause he's popular and really fit or cause he has a great personlity and I can trust him...personality rules looks anyday...although good looks do help!! . Don't go out with a guy to be popular!! Just sloooow down!! Perhaps find a new friendship group away from the "popular" people..."popular" people have a bad reputation...seen the movie, Mean Girls? People will see you like one of them!! And you're not, you can do so much better!! Being popular is stressful!! You probably feel like you're always being judged? Like you have to look amazing, have a really cute boyfriend and hang out with the coolest girls! Well forget that, find a group of friends you can really trust...stay away from the limelight!! 'Cause it will just get harder and nastier as you grow up!! You'll get into the wrong track!! As you get older, you'll do worse things (if u get my drift). And most popular kids grow up an emotion reck!! So just enjoy life!! You're only young once!! You have tons of time to find the perfect guy!!! Friends are more important!! And getting good grades is important as well.
Please don't take offence!!
Good luck

 

[tongatoast]

Sorry to invade the teen board....was looking to see if there were tips for things for teens to do. Anway....

My daughter is in 6th grade, and I can't imagine her going out with 22 people, much less one. That is excessive, and to me seems a sign that you are just trying much TOO hard to be popular. Can you honestly tell me you liked each of these 22 boys? I do see some 6th grade girls "dating", but to me it seems to be more like a 5 year old getting into her mothers high heels.

Slow down. Be true to yourself. Don't try so hard to impress or be the "it" girl. If this is what you are doing at 11/12, what will be going on at 13-14-15?