@Hubie - I wanted to say take an Alaska cruise. But that’s my other love. Even that is suffering from the “discovery” of fabulous travel destinations.
The North Shore has been a parking challenge since I started going in 2000.
And Monkeypod near Aulani is from Chef Peter Merriman, who helped to bring decent wages to the farmers of Hawaii and decrease the reliance on food shipped in from the mainland. Plus he does know how to create tasty food. (My favorite is his namesake restaurant in Waimea on the Big Island).
At Aulani, the Island Country Markets (an ABC store - local, large chain of souvenir/ convenience stores) is a great place to buy drinks and snacks. The location next to Monkeypod - across the road from Aulani - has a hot food section. Very possibly breakfast. I imagine something with Spam, at least.
I haven’t been since 2020, so I don’t know how bad the current problems are, but I also may just not go to certain places. The homeless lived in the Queens Park near the zoo for years. True downtown Honolulu is dingy and a homeless area, but I did not go there in the many months I have spent over the years. Most tourists don’t, as it has nothing geared toward them.