Boy, do I feel your pain! My youngest ds was diagnosed last year. We have switched medications several times. I thought that we finally had this under control, but now the medicine doesn't seem to be working.
So far, ds has been on Methlyn, Concerta, Vyvanse, Focalin, Dextroamphetamine and Straterra. Some of those have been dose changes as well. Concerta and Vyvanse turned my son in to a walking zombie during the day, and a little violent in the evening. He pushed, kicked and hit me. He is a very good kid and we never had behavioral problems, so I know it was the medicine.
He was taking Dextroamphetamine and Straterra for several months now, but we just stopped. He was very lethargic and school and they could never get him to stay focused. The school just told me to send him with no medicine until we can see a specialist. I've been told that his attention is better with no medicine. I'm wondering if he is going to be one of those kids where medicine doesn't work.
I just bought a book called "Disconnected Kids". The author has a program called
http://www.brainbalancecenters.com/. I'm looking into their ideas to see if it can help my son.
This is all so frustrating! Maybe there is no medicine that will help. Maybe we are better off finding some non-pharmaceutical things to help.