Dancind
Tinkerbell's Mom
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I have posted on threads here in the past on threads about medications for ADHD. My DD has been on meds since she was 7, she's 13 now. She has a severe auditory processing disability in addition to being diagnosed with ADD, and meds really turned things around for her at school. We tried Ritalin, it made her extremely paranoid, and we settled on Dexedrine spansules. Two years ago, she did a trial of Adderall, which made her extremely cranky. She was actually getting in fights at school! So back to Dexedrine, which I really thought didn't cause her any side effects. She has always had trouble socially, but in the last year had found a few friends in her gifted classes. Most of the kids at her school think she's a bit "weird" (her words).
For the last two years, I have given her twice daily doses of high quality fish oil. It really seemed to help with mood swings and a tendency toward depression, so we kept it up. This summer, for the first time, she has taken a break from the Dexedrine. As the summer has progressed, it has become very obvious that my daughter's personality is very different from what we thought it was. She is happy, easy-going, social, and very funny. An honest-to-gosh Mary Sunshine. My DH and I joke about our "new, improved" daughter. Her dance teacher has noticed, and the other kids have certainly noticed. I asked her, and she confirmed that she feels much happier this summer.
So we agreed that she would start school without going back on the meds. It's scary, because she has a challenging 8th grade year coming up, including Algebra, which she tested into last year. I don't know what we will do if she starts to fall behind because she isn't getting her work done.
I'm posting this because I thought maybe some other parents may have been through this with their kids, or noticed differences in their kids due to meds, or maybe noticed differences and not known what is going on. I still believe that there are kids that the meds help tremendously, with no ill side effects. I guess my kid is extra sensitive. I just wish I had realized it sooner.
For the last two years, I have given her twice daily doses of high quality fish oil. It really seemed to help with mood swings and a tendency toward depression, so we kept it up. This summer, for the first time, she has taken a break from the Dexedrine. As the summer has progressed, it has become very obvious that my daughter's personality is very different from what we thought it was. She is happy, easy-going, social, and very funny. An honest-to-gosh Mary Sunshine. My DH and I joke about our "new, improved" daughter. Her dance teacher has noticed, and the other kids have certainly noticed. I asked her, and she confirmed that she feels much happier this summer.
So we agreed that she would start school without going back on the meds. It's scary, because she has a challenging 8th grade year coming up, including Algebra, which she tested into last year. I don't know what we will do if she starts to fall behind because she isn't getting her work done.
I'm posting this because I thought maybe some other parents may have been through this with their kids, or noticed differences in their kids due to meds, or maybe noticed differences and not known what is going on. I still believe that there are kids that the meds help tremendously, with no ill side effects. I guess my kid is extra sensitive. I just wish I had realized it sooner.