Ok so in an effort to compromise with DF Here si waht I came up with in the wee hours last night....
THE PLAN
We have the wedding @ 10am @ SBP as planned
Since we have Randy I need to keep reminding myself that there will be 3 hours worth of me in my dress.
We will do the Ceremony, cutting of the cake Photo op, and do a champagne toast.
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robably be done around 11am::
After formal pictures send everyone but DF and I in the limo to their respective resorts to change while DF and I go around the boardwalk area and take our photos with randy.

(I figure it'll be alittle less weird if everyone leaves while we take our photos)
::Finish with Randy around Noon-ish::
Once we are all done with Randy i'm sure the limo can come back and pick us up and bring up back to BLT where we can change into a cute white sundress (me) and kakhi short with a nice button down shirt (DF)
We'll have everyone meet at ECPOT and go to CR (DF and I's favorite) for Lunch around 1:30. (I'm alsot going to try and see if we can have the cake delievered to CR so we can have that for desert)
That way once lunch is over we can all either hang out and do rides or dispurse and it won't matter. We'll just ask everyone to meet up again for illuminations that night. (I love illuminations!

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Ok what do you think? BE HONEST!!!