Thanks everyone for your replies. I have gotten no-where and after my last attempt face to face tonight with someone I have thrown in the towel.
To explain the situation a little better we did reserve the tickets on AA over the phone, then went and paid at the airport in person after locating the flight numbers, times, and price over the internet but never did anything on line except get the info. When I did all my research the other night I also went to AA site and got all my info, even printing it out and brought with me with dates and times tonight. Once again all I got was, well, things change from moment to moment. Yes, I know all that and have played this game many times, that's how I got the flight to begin with. Never, ever, ever, have I been able to repeatedly pull up something on the internet on THEIR website and gotten the same answer only for them to tell me it doesn't exist. After 3 frustrating phone calls the other night I did ask to speak to a supervisor and they wouldn't let me. Said they could handle it. When I told him I found this on AA web site he said, oh we don't have anything to do with them, that's a whole different company. WHAT? When I said to the guy ''so what you are telling me is that if I saw that exact flight for the price that I did, then my only choice was to cancel and be refunded and get on line and process the new one. He said fine, I'll cancel this one if you want, and you can do whatever you want. " I said, "wait a minute, I don't want you doing anything until I confirm the new reservation then I will call you back and cancel" We said ours goodbyes. So, I then get on line and for one hour I could not after repeated tries, bring that itinirary back up. It was gone. I went to bed. The next morn I got up at 6am and logged back on only to see it there as plain as day. HMMMM.... where did it go. I printed it off, called again to once again deal with it, only to be told the exact same thing. So, I figured I just needed to move on and told the guy what leg needed to be fixed and he started messing with the whole itinirary, 4 legs. By this time I am fuming again as to what is going on. I once again tell the guy ALL I NEED IS 1 LEG to be fixed. Aren't they the ones who called me and said THEY were changing my flight. So I finally get him straightened out and tell him I just need to get my seat numbers for that last leg and that I noticed there were NO 2 seats together and ask where they have put us, mind you I have already checked on line and pulled up our reservation and now the last 2 legs no longer show seat assaignments. So he says to me "oh, you want to sit TOGETHER"? AHHHHHH!!!!! So he finally finds us 2 seats together and I am out of time and patience. Once again I am off the phone. Long day yesterday so I set out to get something on paper tonight at the airport. BY this time I realize the price is out the window, now I have to concentrate on the ticket and what the itinirary says. So I give him my name and confirmation number and explain there were some changes due to an adjustment on their part and would just like this on paper. NO PROBLEM. So he prints it out, and I look it over. Still no seat assaignment for the 2 legs on our flight home. So I point this out to him and he sets out to find out why. There ARE no seat assaignments, that's why. So I tell him where we are supposed to be and he changes it and prints me out a new itinirary. I guess there are a few points I haven't made clear. First I could have taken this EXACT itinirary in the beginning for less money than we did, and yes I know for sure that it was available, but we paid more money because I wanted those flights. I wanted less layovers and an earlier flight. So now we are being made to change when we paid more for something we could have paid less for had we chosen to do so in the beginning. The second point is I have seen this exact new itinirary for actually weeks for the lower price and they are still telling me no even when I printed it out with dates and times; minutes within the change. I feel like I have been lied to and it clear they lack in competency. I told my DH I hated to be so pushy with the guy tonight to have something on paper but like he said; if I hadn't we would have gotten to the airport and would not have had seats and if they overbooked we could have been standing there without seats or worse with seats not together, and I hate flying. I give up!Thanks for letting me vent and sorry this is so long but leaving out some details before didn't paint a clear enough picture. Thanks! I feel better!