JacknSally
Rock on, gold dust woman · she/her
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That said, I get the urge for the quick fixes. I do wonder if sometimes the quick results from a few days of crazy might be OK IF (and this is a big if) it gets you psychologically motivated to make more healthful lasting changes. My great-grandmother lived with us when I was a kid and was devoted to never weighing more than 135 pounds on her 5'7" frame. She weighed herself regularly and if the scale ever flipped to 136, she spent a few days on the cabbage soup diet. I don't remember her doing this more than once or twice a year but it seemed to be all she needed to "reset" herself. I just asked my mom about this and she confirmed that this had been going on since my mom was a kid. Of course I tried the cabbage soup diet at some point in the last decade and didn't last a day. Ick!
This. I 100% agree with you. I believe in - and do! - quick fixes for just that - a quick fix. Best believe I had some "crazy diet" behavior the week before my wedding, because that was my goal at the time - have that number as low as possible that day. But you are completely right - it's about your mindset going into it. If you're doing it for the "right" reasons - to "get started", to push yourself over a hump so you can psychologically keep going, to motivate yourself, etc. - then that's one thing. If you're doing it because you want long-term results and you want them NOW, or worse, if you think you can live like that forever or it's what you HAVE to do to, then you're setting yourself up for serious trouble. I also don't think it should be a regular thing.
I tried the "military diet" once, and it was extreme restriction for 3 days... and it recommended you do it for 3 days, every week. Forever. Yes, I saw a few pounds come off that first week, but it was seriously things like "1/2 grapefruit for breakfast, 1 egg and 1 oz of cheese for lunch, a piece of toast and 2 eggs for dinner". That's not a forever way of eating. But on days when I'm feeling gross or bloated and heavy, I'll eat things like that - not that drastically, but I'll definitely cut way back and be more selective about what I'm eating.