CandleontheWater
Forever in love with Hathaway Browne
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Yay for being close to single digits! LOVE that feeling! We hit single digits today for the cruise.
Hopefully Everett sleeps well for you this weekend! Fingers crossed!
Sorry hear about the inlaws... Is he a only child? Sounds similar to a friends situation where he is a only child. Sucks that you are putting in real effort to have them bond with Everett and they stomp all over you. Hopefully it all works out soon and they do not crash the April trip.
Yay for being close to your cruise! It is my dream to get on a Disney cruise one of these days. I don't think it will happen for a few years, I don't think DH wants to do a cruise with young kids.
I just don't get it, its not like I'm keeping DS from them, I'm making time for them every week to see him and spend time with him. I don't think they would be happy no matter how much time I spent over there, they are always complaining about something that DH and I are doing wrong.
I'm sorry that your trip to Saratoga didn't go quite as planned! I'm not really an authority on kid advice, but maybe there'll be a lot more going on in Disney that will make Everett more tired in the evenings? I know no vacation makes me more exhausted than Disney!!
Ugh, and I'm sorry to hear that you're having in-law issues. Hopefully they resolve themselves soon, that must be very frustrating!![]()
I'm crossing my fingers. I'm thinking that with Everett it may be just the opposite, if he gets too much excitement before bed, he is just wired and has a really hard time winding down. The night he didn't sleep at Saratoga was the night he was out late dancing and running like a fool. I thought for sure it would tire him right out, I guess I was wrong.

I'm so sorry about your in-law frustrations. Wanting to spend time with your son is normal, but not on his family vacation! I hope they'll come to their senses.
I wish I could have seen Epcot in its golden age! I hope you can get your special merch. So awesome!!
IlluminNations dessert party?! I had no idea such a thing existed!!
Oooh, you'll have to do an Illuminations dessert party one day, you'd really love it!

I'm late, but joining in!! I hope to do Disney pregnant with a toddler someday. Is it sad that I WANT to go to Disney pregnant? LOL I could've gone this past May but I would've been 32 weeks during DH's vacation this year and in January I just didn't know how I would feel and of course the heat. Of course when that week rolled around I would've been fine and it was just as hot here, but oh well!
You are leaving so soon, I can't wait to hear all about it!!
I do think you are a little crazy to want to do Disney pregnant, but I can understand, I always want to be in Disney!

I did something similar with my first pregnancy, DH and I had a trip planned for when I was about 30 weeks pregnant, and I ended up canceling it, because I was afraid that I'd be sick, or tired or something would happen, and then when the time rolled around, I was kicking myself. It think its tough when its a first pregnancy and you don't know what to expect, I sure wasn't about to sit out this time around, and I'm sure you'll likely be the same way!

Your trip is getting so close! I do hope you'll do a TR!
I am so sorry about you in law issues. You are right-Everett should NEVER hear someone treating his mom that way. I don't care who they are. She wants to go on your vacation so that she can spend the mornings with DH? Is she nuts? GRRRR. Please feel free to share anytime, you are in a safe place among friends.![]()
Thank you for the support. I've really been doing my best, but this has been a tough time for me, and the last thing I need is more stress and aggravation. I hoping I might get an apology for their behavior, but I'm not going to hold my breath.
Yeah for almost being to single digits and the trip getting closer!!
Sorry to hear your having these inlaw issues. It's probably not easy on any of you having your DH so far away especially you and Everett. Just know your not the only one who goes through these issues. I actually had a friend of my mil's make a comment to me that my mil doesn't feel like a grandma cuz she doesn't get to see her grandkids all the time. My response was she knows my number and knows I'm home. She can call me anytime. Do you think anything changed.....NOPE and that comment was made 3 years ago.
I just don't understand! If you really want to see someone why don't you call up and make plans. Wouldn't that be more productive than complaining? I just don't understand that mindset at all.
