LuvvsMickey
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I am sorry you had to cancel the trip to LA twice. It does sound like she is worried about what you will think of her and the life she has now. I think in time she might be more open to seeing you in person.
I think it would be a good idea to make plans for your family to vacation there, possibly next summer, so you can see Disneyland. Then you can just plan to meet her somewhere in LA. Ask her and your niece to come to your hotel and visit. Then you can spend the day taking your niece to Disneyland.
Even though she lives in LA your niece might have never been to Disneyland. Perhaps your hubby could tell his sister that you have extra tickets/days to use from this year's trip, so the there would be no cost for her and her daughter. I am guessing that the sister goes along with plans, etc. and then backs out at the last minute in order to avoid letting you know that she doesn't have the money to go to Disney, etc. Someone in this situation might also be reluntant to accept money, etc even from a "family member". That is why I suggest the story of the extra tickets.
mdsouth:
Those are wonderful ideas. If we had the funds, we'd do it in a heartbeat. Sadly, we won't be going anywhere on vacation for a very long time. If we do go anywhere it will be via car and we'll be bunking with relatives or in a tent somewhere! Ack!
