CandleontheWater
Forever in love with Hathaway Browne
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I think hanging out with some friends in Mexico sounds like much less of a waste of time than spending hours of the day waiting in long lines and rushing around.
It is kind of funny to see everyone else in the rain. So many people with ponchos, usually all the same Disney one, and a few people not worrying about the rain and getting wet. In the summer, an afternoon shower isn't always such a bad thing.
I think you are spot on with the lines comment!

We haven't left yet...Thursday the 30th is our day!
Glad you are one step closer to going back to Florida.
I have to say that I am a little jelous of all of the people on here that go to EWDW in a large group. It is just DH, DD, and me going. I bet we will have a grand ol time anyway.
Can't wait to read more![]()
Ooops, sorry, Math has never been my strong suit!

I know that is where you want to be, so I hope it goes through without a hitch.
My kids are spread out just enough for my liking. Jill is three years older than Trent, and Trent is four years older than Drew. I got to enjoy each of them being a baby and toddler before another one came on the scene. They rarely argued when they were little, because their interests were so different. They didn't want the same toys at the same time. Jill wanted her girl things, Trent was all about basketball, soccer, football - any kind of sport. Drew liked cars above anything, and he loved to roller blade and play roller hockey in ther neighbor's driveway. He loved riding his bike and doing tricks. He liked the sports, whereas Trent loved the sports, so they played them together sometimes, but not enough to get on each other's nerves.
Do you only want two? If you want a third and/or fourth child, you can add that factor into all of your thinking and plans. How many years you would want between the first and last, money factors, etc. I'm not much for giving opinions, because I often think my ideas are crazy to others. In my case, I wanted five or more kids, but my ex left after the third one. I almost adopted another child (a boy) from Thailand, but I just didn't have the money.
Thats a good point, I keep thinking that my youngest brother and I are 5 years apart, and we played together when we were younger and had lots of fun. Now that we're adults I'm probably even closer to him than to my middle brother, so I guess that they don't need to be super close in age to end up super close.
I would love 3 or 4 children, but I know that DH only wants two. Actually I think he'd be happy with just Everett, but he knows that I really want at least one more, so he's on board. I guess we'll see what happens.
I have read a lot about all the margaritas at The Ditch...I know my mom would love it! Too bad I am hoping to be pregnant for our trip, so I will have to pass. This may also be what influences me to say start trying now...since we are...I have babies on the brain!
That is awesome news about the possible move! Some day maybe we will be able to move closer to Disney. I would love to be closer, but right now we are within 15 minutes of all the grandparents, which is sooo nice when we need a babysitter! I don't know if I could move that far from my mommy!
We went to Disney right before we moved to Virginia and I was 12 weeks pregnant, so I understand. I do love those margaritas, and I was a little jealous of DH still getting to have one, but I knew it would be worth it in the end! Good luck with your TTC endeavors!
I really love Florida, always have and always will! I lived there for 10 years starting right after college, so I'll always think of it as "home" because it is where I started my adult life. I do wish that my parents lived closer, but I'm pretty sure that they'll retire to Florida if that is where we end up!

How exciting! I hope everything goes smoothly with the move back to Florida.
How far apart to have babies is such a personal thing that all I can offer is my personal opinion. As you know, my boys are thirteen months apart. It's not always easy to have two little ones, but it is what we wanted for our family.
I like having two toddlers now, and I'll like having two school-aged kids, and then two teenagers and finally, a nice empty nest so Jeremy and I can have some fun kid-free years together.
To me, it's worth a bit of extra work and difficulty in the beginning in order to have my family completed and never have to have pregnancy hanging over my head again. But that's just me.
If your only concern is how hard moving with two little ones will be, I'm sure you can handle it. Once you have two little ones, you just figure it out. It's only beforehand that you can't see how you could manage. Once you have them, it all falls into place.
I could definitely see how it would be easy in some ways to have babies super close together, and I kinda wish we had taken that route (not only because then I wouldn't have to be making a decision now!). It must be nice for your two to have a built-in friend and playmate, and you'll always know that they'll be into the same toys.
Reading your TR has really been an inspiration to me, I see how you not only manage with two, but thrive, and that is what got me thinking that maybe I could do it too. Maybe I didn't have to put my baby plans on hold, that I could handle having two with DH deployed if I really put my mind to it!
Another great update! I'm so glad that Barfy is finally clothed! Now, he won't be breaking any rules at allIt sounds like you had a great time with your friends at The Ditch. Sometimes you just have to take time to slow down and enjoy the atmosphere and people around you, instead of trying to hit all the attractions in a single day.
That's such exciting news about the possible move! Fingers crossed that it will all work out!![]()
Yes, we always have lots of fun together! I'm hoping we get back down there so that our adventures can continue!
Just joining! I have had a blast reading your TR so far!
From your descriptions of your usual "hobo-style" travel to the airport, "husband-approved" arrival time one week before departure, to your longing for a "itty-bitty parachute" mid-flight, you have had me in stitches from the outset.
Can't believe your luck with those rude and oblivious people at the Nemo and Bruce photo ops....jeeesh people! Get the memo!
And I have to say, it sounds like you have the best mom ever. Taking your son *every* night, and throughout the day so you can ride rides and eat adult-only meals, and then go out drinking at night. Is she for real???And then buying you that D&B bag? Wowza! You do know you hit the jackpot, right?
Loving your report so far, and can't wait to continue on with your journeys!![]()
Thank you so much! I really do feel I have the best mom ever! She is so good to me and Everett, I can never thank her enough. When I was planning this trip, I never even asked if she would join us, because I didn't want to impose on her time, but as soon as I told her we were going, she volunteered to join us so that DH and I could enjoy some solo time!