A 9 & 11 year old in a stroller?

My daughter is a very thin 8 year old. But will I bring my stroller to Disney?? Yes I will. I don't plan on listening to her complain the whole time. Personally I could careless who is in a stroller. I seen alot more strange people and situations than older kids in strollers.

They don't come much slimmer than my DD, who usually comes in at the 50% for height and 10% for weight. If she complained about having to walk, I would solve that issue by taking her back to the hotel. Giving in to complaining would not be an option. Heck, it isn't an option at home so why would I be held hostage to it on vacation? If she is too worn out to walk, then a good long rest is in order. I would just tell her we could come back when she felt up to walking.

A few years ago, we were meeting friends at WDW and they had a child who was prone to complaining and whining. DD is not, but on the off chance such behavior might be contagious, we told her before we entered the gates, "Odds are, Chris is going to whine and complain and try to get his/her way most of the day and that it will work on Chris's parents. We don't think you would ever act the same way, but just in case you decide to try the same thing to see if it might work for you, we want to be clear. It won't. It will get you the opposite of what you want. So if you are tempted to whine or complain like Chris, you need to understand that we will not hesitate to stop whatever we are doing, walk right out of this park and go back to the hotel for the rest of the day."

She never did complain or whine (we didn't think she would) but Chris did. And the parents frequently gave in. Which is probably why Chris kept complaining.....works like a charm.
 
Giving in to complaining would not be an option. Heck, it isn't an option at home so why would I be held hostage to it on vacation?

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My mom 78 has always been the one to whine and complain, manipulate,etc and it worked,everyone enabled her. they are all gone and now I have to "deal" with it. I don't put up with it from her and there is no way I'd put up with it from my kid, because I know where it can lead.
 
They don't come much slimmer than my DD, who usually comes in at the 50% for height and 10% for weight. If she complained about having to walk, I would solve that issue by taking her back to the hotel. Giving in to complaining would not be an option. Heck, it isn't an option at home so why would I be held hostage to it on vacation? If she is too worn out to walk, then a good long rest is in order. I would just tell her we could come back when she felt up to walking.

A few years ago, we were meeting friends at WDW and they had a child who was prone to complaining and whining. DD is not, but on the off chance such behavior might be contagious, we told her before we entered the gates, "Odds are, Chris is going to whine and complain and try to get his/her way most of the day and that it will work on Chris's parents. We don't think you would ever act the same way, but just in case you decide to try the same thing to see if it might work for you, we want to be clear. It won't. It will get you the opposite of what you want. So if you are tempted to whine or complain like Chris, you need to understand that we will not hesitate to stop whatever we are doing, walk right out of this park and go back to the hotel for the rest of the day."

She never did complain or whine (we didn't think she would) but Chris did. And the parents frequently gave in. Which is probably why Chris kept complaining.....works like a charm.

My 11 yr old is 5 foot 5 and weighs 125 pounds and wears a size 9 shoe. She looks like she is 15 or 16 so I can't even fathom the idea of pushing an 11 yr old in a stroller even if they were very little for their age.
 
I think sometimes it has to do more with the parents who are raising these lazy bunch of kids and the parents don't want to hear their mouths complain complain complain and they do not want to deal with it. I say if it is quite obvious that your half grown kid is too old for a stroller and gets cranky from walking then take a break and head back to your resort for a nap or find a nice shady spot to take a relaxing break in. God forbid that you can't be a parent and tell the child no, you have to walk cuz i am sure it will traumatize them for life.
 

My DS16 was 14 on our last family trip, and he was cranky and miserable...having "teen" moments most of the trip. Should I have pushed him in a stroller? Hmmmm....;)
 
Last weekend at the Magic Kingdom we seriously saw a boy, close to ten, sitting in a stroller with a pacifer hanging from his mouth. I was shocked when he got up and ran with his Mom over to get onto the teacups, and then he wrestled with his older brother to get into a teacup first. Once the ride was done, he popped the pacifier back in his mouth, got in the stroller and they walked away.

One of the strangest things I've seen there.
 
I think the ages are a little old for a stroller, like you said.

I have 4 kids under 7 and all of them were in strollers at one point. We brought 2 (a single and a double jogger) and they were fighting over who got to ride after a while. Funny that my 2 year old wanted nothing to do with the strollers most the time, but my older 3 were fighting over seats, LOL
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I think the ages are a little old for a stroller, like you said.

I have 4 kids under 7 and all of them were in strollers at one point. We brought 2 (a single and a double jogger) and they were fighting over who got to ride after a while. Funny that my 2 year old wanted nothing to do with the strollers most the time, but my older 3 were fighting over seats, LOL
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Your kids are all 6 and under. You probably would have done better having 2
doubles then you wouldn't have to carry one kid.

I personally wouldn't push around 6 yrs olds either.
 
We just recently got back from DL. I have DS7 and DS2. My DS7 has cancer but looks totally normal...although he's pretty tall for his age (about 4'5). He sat on the back of our sit and stand stroller for much of the day. I did get "looks" from people but I don't really care. He has a very hard time with stamina. If DS2 was out of a stroller (but he's a wild monkey runner), we would just rent DS7 a wheelchair.

Lots of reply's on this thread have been pretty positive about "unhealthy" children riding in strollers, but I just want to remind everyone that not all disabilities are visual. I can't wait until DS7 actually has the stamina for a week at Disney! I hope it happens soon!

On a different note, we went with another couple who had a 11 year old and every time DS7 decided he wanted to walk, she was by my side begging for his seat! Yea...NOPE! You can walk just fine!!! LOL :lmao:
 
We just recently got back from DL. I have DS7 and DS2. My DS7 has cancer but looks totally normal...although he's pretty tall for his age (about 4'5). He sat on the back of our sit and stand stroller for much of the day. I did get "looks" from people but I don't really care. He has a very hard time with stamina. If DS2 was out of a stroller (but he's a wild monkey runner), we would just rent DS7 a wheelchair.

Lots of reply's on this thread have been pretty positive about "unhealthy" children riding in strollers, but I just want to remind everyone that not all disabilities are visual. I can't wait until DS7 actually has the stamina for a week at Disney! I hope it happens soon!

Thank you for putting all of this into perspective. You are absolutely correct, we shouldn't judge kids in strollers (or adults in wheelchairs), there are many non apparent disabilities. I know when my son gets bone marrow biopsy's, I can hear other kids there pleading, "mommy make them stop!" - can you imagine? You just never know what other families have to go through. Be glad your kids are healthy

On a side note, I hope your DS is good to go soon. I can't imagine walking in your shoes.
 
A stroller thread? For a second, I thought that I was on the Theme Parks board! :laughing:

As for stroller usage, I used to be adamant that (healthy) school-age kids did NOT need to be in a stroller. After all, I walked Disney at 5. Of course, that doesn't take into consideration that all kids are different, not all issues are visible, and I'm old - when I was 5 there was only the Magic Kingdom and EPCOT.

Now, I don't care. It's none of my business. I've never had the issues that some seem to have had with getting rammed with strollers, having trouble fitting down a sidewalk due to strollers, having trouble finding parade seating due to strollers, or any other issues that always seem to come up.

Would I have ridden in a stroller at 11? No way. If someone else's 11 yr old wants to, and the parent doesn't mind, go for it. I don't see why it's my place to judge them for it. :confused3
 
We took my boys to Disney for the first time when they were 2 and 4.... we planned on renting strollers for the whole trip. Decided to try letting them walk the first day and I am glad we did..... never rented a stroller the whole trip!

I can't imagine putting an older child in a stroller, I would be the mean mom telling them to toughen up.

Now a whole different topic is the 12 year old I saw walking along sucking her thumb at the Poly last week. Maybe she needed a nap in the stroller. :confused3
 
Hey, I sometimes get tired and cranky at WDW. I wonder if I could get DS to push me in a stroller.... :)

Seriously, issues aside, most kids past 5-7 don't need to be in a stroller. It might not be my place to judge but with so many strollers clogging up the walkways, I'm not thrilled when it appears that more and more kids are becoming sedentary.
 
A healthy child of 7, 9 or 11 shouldn't need a stroller - it doesn't really matter if they are short, skinny, fat or tall. If a child can't tolerate the walking, then maybe you should consider a trip other than WDW. My ds10 is 3" shorter than myself - there is no way he is being pushed in a stroller. That said he does have several chronic needs that I could use to qualify his "need" to have a stroller but I won't. My dd7 used her last stroller at WDW when she was 5 - she knows not to expect it and she knows the consequence if she decides to whine about the walking.

That said, I bet they would both climb in if "I" wanted a stroller but that won't be happening. I think a lot of the big kids in baby strollers are there because the parents aren't will to accept that they are no longer babies.

If there are disabilities involved, that is a totally different situation but offering strollers because a child will get tired, or whine is just a bit too much coddling on the part of the parents.
 
The last time I went my kids were 6 and 7. I got two double strollers for the last three hours of our day long touring plan in the MK. There was no way that we could have completed it without the strollers and we got to experience Wishes. I learned my commando lesson though - my plan was too rough on the kids. They would have been fine on a "normal" day or if we had been staying onsite and been able to go back to the resort midday for a break. My rookie mistake was buying too few tickets for our stay so I felt we had to cram everything in the 5 days we had at WDW.

Lesson learned - if your older kids need strollers, then you might be pushing them too hard and trying to do too much, instead of just enjoying your time in the World.
 
A stroller thread? For a second, I thought that I was on the Theme Parks board! :laughing:

As for stroller usage, I used to be adamant that (healthy) school-age kids did NOT need to be in a stroller. After all, I walked Disney at 5. Of course, that doesn't take into consideration that all kids are different, not all issues are visible, and I'm old - when I was 5 there was only the Magic Kingdom.

Now, I don't care. It's none of my business. I've never had the issues that some seem to have had with getting rammed with strollers, having trouble fitting down a sidewalk due to strollers, having trouble finding parade seating due to strollers, or any other issues that always seem to come up.

Would I have ridden in a stroller at 11? No way. If someone else's 11 yr old wants to, and the parent doesn't mind, go for it. I don't see why it's my place to judge them for it. :confused3

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