I'm right there with you 1
I'm the same way! Control issues and really do not like my life in control of others. I really thought this would be a subsconscious issue on the cruise also but apparently it being so big it's like a small city on the water, it wasn't an issue at all.
Well, I had mentioned before and was told I. Was. Wrong.
I wear size 7.5 or 8 in regular shoes, tennis shoes, dress shoes, etc. I wear size 6/7 in the crocs including the flipflops. I know that if I ordered size 8 they would be huge on me. I have some that say size 6-7 and some that just say size 7 (different kinds of crocs). My athens (flipflops) are all size 7 and fit perfectly with plenty of room. I think you probably need to go with a 7 or 6-7. I wouldn't push it going to 6 though. My eldest DD has some that are 5's and they are WAY too small for me... so I can't imagine size 6 being much bigger than that. So I vote go with 7 in athens- if they have the size 6-7 go with that but don't go with size 6. Personal opinion. Sorry you ended up with ones too big.
Do you have narrow feet? I'm just curious because it appears that with some people (primarily children but even my husband really) going with what Crocs say works... but for myself, nope. I have narrow feet (no matter how fat my body is LOL) and my first purchases were in the store so I could try them on. And everyone working there had on crocs and swore up and down that you shouldn't buy big because even if they fit perfectly at buying your size they stretch out some and end up loose. They were right and I know by trying them on that going with 8 was ridiculously huge from the get go. My size 6-7 or 7's in crocs fit great and aren't too tight.