If anything, it's YOU HARDLINERS that are driving the newbies away with your constant moaning. Go on the Dis Unplugged board--there's a lovely, well thought-out post from a Disney newbie who literally almost cancelled her trip because all of the negativity from y'all with your first-world 'waaaaaah, I can't go to Disney and NOT WAIT IN LINE!' posts.
I may be just as obsessed with Disney, but I'm living here now, so I don't complain...and even if I wasn't, even IF I was spending in the thousands to get here, I'd be thanking my lucky STARS that I was fortunate enough to be standing in those hour-long lines instead of being at home. Or, worse, starving/homeless/otherwise unfortunate. Get some perspective, dudes.
^^Perfect example of how we're scaring people away. Do you think Disney management really wants to please the hardcore nerds when it's THEM who are pushing away potential business?

There was once a time when lines were standard, Florida was hot (well, that's most of the time) and water fountains/free water weren't in the parks (read into stuff on the opening of WDW and you'll see that management chose restrooms over water fountains to build at the last minute before the grand opening). People still called Disney the Happiest Place on Earth.
*giggles uncontrollably*