Nope but you are getting
super close. My scheme is to "not pay" for one of those preferred rooms but get a building that is actually closer to a food court /buses than any preferred room.
I rarely even get to go to the bathroom alone so I wanna know how MM got the fam to agree to this???? I want in on it!
Well it all started one dark day when I tripped over a dog toy that I had to walk near when I was avoiding all the chairs that were left out, pushed away from the kitchen table. While lying on the floor I spotted all the slippers that people were supposed to be wearing in the house instead of their street shoes. (2 for my son, 2 for my "hus
bane" and 4 for the dog).
It was then that I decided to run away.
But seriously, I have been squirreling away money for something photography related. Either that or a giant screen TV. Anywho all those times that DH went to a Crosby Stills and Nash concert I would ask "how much did that ticket cost?" and put that money away in the "Big something delicious" slush fund. That and the birthday/Christmas money added up to $807 bucks. Then I have about 280 disney dollars accrued.
I have always wanted to take a solo photography trip. Usually when we go I am doing rope drop, pool in the afternoon with my son and then park closings. My family is very patient while they wait for me to get my pictures but it takes time to get the camera set up and nail the exposure and it always seems like a compromise between them waiting for me and me getting the time I need. Keeping this kind of schedule is exhausting and this old gray mare just ain't what she used to be...
This trip will be about early mornings and late nights with naps in the afternoon and no other agendas but mine. If I want to spend an hour photographing Spaceship earth at night using various techniques and framing I can do that! If I want to spend a late night in the parks I know that I can come back to the room at noon the next day and take a well deserved rest with out having to entertain DS at the pool!
When I sprung this on my husband he knew I had all the angles and financing figured out so it was useless to object. The first thing he said was "Does this mean we won't have to wait for you to take pictures on the next trip". That wasn't the smartest thing to say but it illustrates the problem between trying to do two trips in one visit.
I'm the one that's nuts about Disney. DH likes it but not like I do. I'm insane, but those of you reading this are well aware of that fact! The thing I am most proud of is my Dear son. He loves Disney too but he is totally cool about this. He is 13 and we have the kind of relationship where we would do anything for each other. I've always raised him so that he knows he will get anything he wants because he earns it by working so hard to be a good student and a loving and helpful person. He
understands why I'm going! He is mature enough not to be resentful or jealous. I'm going to be curious to see how DH reacts because he is more than a little jealous with me and totally monkey see, monkey do.
So my advice to you is to find a way to set some money aside to follow your dreams. So often as 'mothers' or 'fathers' or 'husbands' or 'wives' we get so caught up in that role that we lose a big part of ourselves. We feel like we have to chain ourselves to those roles and not let ourselves come out for awhile.
I thought about this and I think that the best thing ever is to show your children and spouse that you are not only the 'mother' (or 'father' or 'husband' or 'wife') but that you are an individual with hopes and dreams and goals and aspirations that have nothing to do with them. There is nothing wrong with that and BTW don't take NO for an answer if they should try and resist. Remember you are not asking, you are saying I need to do this and this is what I'm going to do. We can do "our" stuff later. This time it's my turn and I'm doing MY thing!