Marla Hellwig
I'm not lost, it's called creative exploring
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Marla--do you miss band? Miss going to the shows, etc.? We have 2 weeks left in our season-I can't believe how fast it goes and then we will only have 3 years left of a kid in the band (and worse yet, they will all be in college ). Your DD looks like she is having a great time. Is she swimming in college?
She misses more than I do, she has lots of friends still there and they all call her 3rd quarter every Fri night or while on buses to and from competition
I miss seeing the band shows, but am not missing the sitting in the stands for hours or all the driving back and forth etc
Our band director usually doesn't just let former members into band stands each week, due think part is due to the size of band in it self - her freshman yr, they had like 260 or so, this year they are just about 180 - 190 i think
Not swimming at the moment, no swim team at her comm college, but she is lifeguarding for the Y down the street so is still getting some water time - her yr around coach said she can come back when she is ready.
Here's to a great week for eveyone
We only go to one competition. It is in our state but I'm not sure that we will even make the finals this year. It is a really boring show called "Industry: the sounds of Industry in the 40's". These kids work too hard to do good and give up their "free time" to have the director not care. Last year they had a really nice show, made finals but came in 7 out of 8 in the finals. It doesn't look like he teaches the fundamentals. We lost points for stupid mess ups like not up on toes, etc. That is really sad. They don't practice much either. Maybe 1x a week if it doesn't rain. This Friday will be our 7th game and we only have 3 of our 4 songs done. There are only 38 sets in the WHOLE show!! Last year we had more than 60 sets. I'm really sad about all of this. I wasn't in band but love seeing my DS out there playing his drums and the whole "rock star" thing our drumline has going on. Homecoming is this week. Hopefully they can get the show done and try "perfecting" it before our only competition on Halloween. Sorry for the long vent session. There are only a few parents that feel the way I do about our director, the others just think he is great. Not that it means anything but he is about to have his 65th bday. Maybe he will retire. 
Although I am better than another mom....she will have spent 12 years at the high school as a parent.


Thankfully it won't be a problem since he sprung this semi last minute. 