me too. Living in snow land, I really need it to be warm on vacation to be happy. John wanted to take an Alaskan cruise and I told him I would be thrilled to go as long as it was balanced with a caribbean cruise afterward.
We did Alaska years ago (before kids) since my husband likes the cold weather and I always made him do warm weather trips. It was beautiful and a great trip but I must say I missed the pools, warmth and sun!!!!! Your idea of compromise sounds perfect!