Hi guys. Glad to see this thread is still going strong. Thought I'd post my latest update.
My husband was released from jail (on bail) mid-August. Not quite sure what that judge was thinking, but oh well. Anyway, I just couldn't imagine being in the same small rural area with him. Talked to the kids, who were absolutely panicked, and made a major life decision to move to Florida. I drove the kids down to my moms (SW FL), and worked with my office to eventually end up with a station transfer to MacDill AFB in Tampa. I can't say how wonderful my bosses have been at working through this with me. I moved the kids the middle of August, and finally got transferred the first of October. During the between time, I was mostly on travel, and was able to spend the majority of weekends with the kids. When I was back in MD, I was a bundle of nerves the entire time (stayed with friends, and pretty much only went from the house to work, where he was barred by armed guards and fences). I actually did see my husband in traffic one day, and that just confirmed my decision to move, since it hit me like a ton of bricks.
Since his release, my husband has continued to spiral downward. Multiple problems with the police, financial difficulties, confrontation problems etc. I just don't see any of this going away for him, because "none of this is his fault, and it's all a misunderstanding". Just more reason why I'm glad to be 1000 miles away.
Anyway, the first thing the kids said when I mentioned Florida was "Cool, we can go to Disney all the time, right?" So let me know of any DIS meets, and maybe I can drop in!
Hopefully, I'm done with the major crisis mode for a long time. I've been blessed to have the resources and support to enable me to move and maintain a normal life for my kids. At the latest, my divorce will be final in July, but we're petitioning the court for an immediate divorce given the extreme circumstances. Husband's court date for the major felony charges is in February, and so far they haven't said that I have to testify. I truly don't want to go through it all over again.
Anyway, that's the scoop. I might drop by chat tonight. I'm going to a showing of the new Left Behind movie, but it should be over by 9. And my mom and her friend are staying at my house since they evacuated due to Wilma! Life just keeps moving on, doesn't it??
Take care,
The "good" Lisa (Just had to get that in Stace)