Can we talk a little about fish extenders? I'm inclined to agree to do it but it'll be our first time cruising and therefore FE'ing.
Do we do something for each individual person (69 so far) or families? What's the norm for spending? Also, is a daily gift preferred?
Hi Jen!
The Scillycruisers have it in a nutshell - it's really a casual activity, with boundaries set by you. So rule number 1: there are no rules. Rule number 2: see rule number 1.
Just do what works for you, as a fun way to build in some pre-trip anticipation, daily surprise and excitement, and post-trip memories.
You won't need to worry about getting something for everyone. I'd planned to start aligning the FE Exchange into a number of separate lists by now, each of about 12 staterooms. I'm holding off on that for a bit, expecting some more participants to sign up. But it should help with everyone's planning to know that you're not going to be dealing with a long and expanding list of staterooms as we approach sail date. (Unless you want to, that is. On our last cruise, we were on multiple FE lists, and had fun with it, although the extra shopping just before flying out was a little stressful!)
So - plan for 12 or so staterooms. That will be about 36 people, if you're doing individualized gifts - but to know for sure, you'll have to wait until the list starts getting split.
We've been keeping our eyes open for small crafts, snacks, and trinkets for months already. (OK, so we never stop looking...) We don't have a set spending amount in mind - but I'm pretty sure we've stayed under $10 a stateroom every time.
I wouldn't recommend planning daily delivery for your first FE Exchange experience - even a dozen staterooms will probably take you around most of the ship, and it might seem less fun the more you do it. On this 7-day cruise, a couple of separate circuits would be very do-able, but even one is enough!
We tend to do things for staterooms rather than individuals, making identical goodie bags at home before we go. For staterooms with children, we have added special things for the kids. We've received individually personalized gifts, so clearly our way of doing things isn't the only one!
If it starts to feel like too much pressure, then you should back off a bit until it's fun again. It's the Caribbean, and you're there to relax!
See you soon!
David (DH of Mog's Mom)