There are two other very good restaurants at the GF that you might want to consider.
Citrico's is arguably the best restaurant at WDW. I rate it in the top two, it's only rival is JIKO IMHO, although tow more different places couldn't be found.
Although upscale, it's not so to the level of V&A's, chino's and polo's are fine for dining there. The menu is also not quite as gourmet, while still being quite inspired. The atmosphere is quite romantic.
Also the Grand Floridian Cafe is a great choice. Casually elegant, this restaurant has the elegant qualities of the GF, while still be a place that park attire is the norm. It's generally a quiet place, seldom crowded and the tables are nicely spaced for private conversation.
Anne