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[WithDisneySpirit]

I am sorry too... I also wish you would stay! I enjoyed your floral planning session TR very much!!

 

[BayouPrincess]

Skylar,
I must have missed something. I was able to catch your sad news and you and your DF are in my thoughts and prayers. I hate that you are leaving. I hope that you will find a space to come back to those of us here who care about you and your family. Sending you lots of and for your upcoming wedding.

 

[alissa2008]

I'm really confused!! What happened in Skylars PJ?? Who's as$ do I have to whoop??

 

[Wazzo]

I'm really confused!! What happened in Skylars PJ?? Who's as$ do I have to whoop??

Me too! I'm sorry bad things happened, and that you are not continuing your PJ...

Best wishes with your plans and on your big day!

 

[29apr00]

Skylarr, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there, and it's a horrible place to be. Don't let anyones cruel comments deter you from your dreams. Unfortunatly during times like this, some people tend to engage mouth before engaging brain and say things that are hurtful and completely wrong. I don't believe they say mean things on purpose, i think they really are just trying to help, but are unsure of what to say.

Please take the time you need to heal from your pain and loss, but do continue your PJ.

Jennifer

 

[Chilly]

I am so sorry for your and your DFs loss. You are both in my prayers. You do whatever is best for you both.

 

[DisneyBrideToni]

What happened??? I see the news about the baby which is so so sad and you and your DF will be in my prayers but why are you leaving?????

Please don't go!!

 

[Skylarr29]

What happened??? I see the news about the baby which is so so sad and you and your DF will be in my prayers but why are you leaving?????

Please don't go!!

I have received a lot of pm's so I will just post why I deleted my posts.

I deleted them because someone decided that I made up the miscarriage for attention.

I would never wish that misfortune on anyone and for someone to have the audacity of saying I made it up is just ridiculous. I know there are many nice people here but that is just too much for me to deal with on top of everything else.

Once again, thank you to all who have sent kind words of encouragement through pm.

And for those of you who have had mean things to say, I hope people extend the same courtesies you have extended to me, if ever you find yourself in such a horrible position.

 

[alissa2008]

I have received a lot of pm's so I will just post why I deleted my posts.

I deleted them because someone decided that I made up the miscarriage for attention.

I would never wish that misfortune on anyone and for someone to have the audacity of saying I made it up is just ridiculous. I know there are many nice people here but that is just too much for me to deal with on top of everything else.

Once again, thank you to all who have sent kind words of encouragement through pm.

And for those of you who have had mean things to say, I hope people extend the same courtesies you have extended to me, if you ever find yourself in such a horrible position.

I would not take those comments to heart - it was probably just some crazy knottie trying to make as many people feel like junk as they can. ... We're here to support you and help you talk through your time of need...

here's to those who wish us well -- and those who don't can go to (well you know where they can go)....

 

[29apr00]

OMG what a horrible hateful thing to do!! Why anyone would think you could make something like that up is beyond me! I'm so sorry someone would diminish your pain that way.

 

[DisneyBrideToni]

OMG!! What is wrong with people. Why would you ever say someone made up something like that!!! Some people make me sick.

That is so sad. We understand that you have to leave but if you do feel better and come back we are all still here for you!

 

[BayouPrincess]

Melissa,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Lisa

 

[Lynn5700]

Skylar,I'm sorry,I can't speak for anybody,only myself so please forgive me for asking......What caught me of guard was that you said you were only pregnant for ten days,it sounded kind of like oh well no big deal it was only ten days. I know on a message board you can't tell if the person is joking or whatever.That just didn't sound right to me.

So you say you were only pregnant for 10 days..I think it was probably more than ten days..I'm no doctor but I do know that it takes a woman 2 weeks after conception to know if she is pregnant so you were most likely pregnant more than ten days. Here is something I found,it's hard to tell if you are pregnant with in the first couple days,most woman don't find out until they miss thier first period,then again some women are different.Some women go through the whole pregnancy and never know they are pregnant.

4 days before expected period= 51% accurate
3 days before expected period= 82% accurate
2 days before expected period= 90% accurate
1 day before expected period =95% accurate
the day of expected period =99% accurate

I'm sorry,but I think maybe that is why some people don't quite believe you. I will be honest the more I thought about it,it didn't make sense to me.

I would feel bad for the girls on here if you were just trying to get some type of attention because obviously they are really concerned about you and care for you. I felt terrible when I read that you lost the baby and it bothers me if you made all this up when we all were very concerned,my heart dropped to my stomach when I read it. I felt horrible,what a devestating thing to happen to a woman.

I'm sorry if this offends anybody,and I'm sorry Skylar but I just had to be honest with you,I don't put out an act on this board. We all have bulit relationships with each other on here,and I have a lot of friends on this board and I would never take advantage of them so it kind of upsets me if this was all made up and I see them on here showing you concern.

Again I can't tell you how sorry I am.If this did really happen to you please take care of yourself and I am VERY SORRY for this.

I'm trying to be very nice and again I hope this doesn't offend anybody. I'm just looking out for everybody.

Lynn

 

[Skylarr29]

Skylar,I'm sorry,I can't speak for anybody,only myself so please forgive me for asking......What caught me of guard was that you said you were only pregnant for ten days,it sounded kind of like oh well no big deal it was only ten days. I know on a message board you can't tell if the person is joking or whatever.That just didn't sound right to me.

So you say you were only pregnant for 10 days..I think it was probably more than ten days..I'm no doctor but I do know that it takes a woman 2 weeks after conception to know if she is pregnant so you were most likely pregnant more than ten days. Here is something I found,it's hard to tell if you are pregnant with in the first couple days,most woman don't find out until they miss thier first period,then again some women are different.Some women go through the whole pregnancy and never know they are pregnant.

4 days before expected period= 51% accurate
3 days before expected period= 82% accurate
2 days before expected period= 90% accurate
1 day before expected period =95% accurate
the day of expected period =99% accurate

I'm sorry,but I think maybe that is why some people don't quite believe you. I will be honest the more I thought about it,it didn't make sense to me.

I would feel bad for the girls on here if you were just trying to get some type of attention because obviously they are really concerned about you and care for you. I felt terrible when I read that you lost the baby and it bothers me if you made all this up when we all were very concerned,my heart dropped to my stomach when I read it. I felt horrible,what a devestating thing to happen to a woman.

I'm sorry if this offends anybody,and I'm sorry Skylar but I just had to be honest with you,I don't put out an act on this board. We all have bulit relationships with each other on here,and I have a lot of friends on this board and I would never take advantage of them so it kind of upsets me if this was all made up and I see them on here showing you concern.

Again I can't tell you how sorry I am.If this did really happen to you please take care of yourself and I am VERY SORRY for this.

I'm trying to be very nice and again I hope this doesn't offend anybody. I'm just looking out for everybody.

Lynn

I just want to say that I never said I was only pregnant for 10 days... we only KNEW for 10 days. We found out on Wednesday the 4th and had the miscarriage late Saturday night into the morning on the 15th. SO about 10 days. In those 10 days we rearranged our whole entire wedding and many other things in our life trying to get ready for a baby. Our first doctors appointment was for this Monday coming up. I am still going for a check up but obviously not for the same reason the appointment was made.

I am sorry some people have taken anything I have said out of context. You guys only knew such a small part of the story as this is a message board. Seriously, why in the world would anyone make something like that up. This is just so absurd. I can't even believe it. I wish I had never told anyone so I wouldn't have to be dealing with this already terrible situation and then to have people question it and say mean things is just horrible.


Oh and we took 5 pregnancy tests and they were all after my period was due. I was on birth control and we never even thought we were pregnant because of that so when we finally got around to taking a test (thinking it would be negative) it was already after a missed period making it's accuracy at the 99% ALSO, when a pregnancy test is not accurate it is because you get a FALSE NEGATIVE, not because you get a FALSE POSITIVE. You can't really get a false positive as the test has to detect the HCG in your urine... no pregnancy means no HCG and no positive test. You can frequently get a false negative because you tested too early or have low levels of HCG that are not being detected by the test. - FYI

 

[Tabetha]

I wish you didn't feel like you owe anyone an explanation.

I'm sorry that a bad situation was made worse.

 

[disneychickforever]

just as a scientific fact, it is possible to get a false positive if you are on birth control; most (I believe all) birth control contains HCG, which is what usually prevents pregnancy. It tricks your body into thinking your pregnant so you can't get pregnant. However, no form of birth control is 100% safe. It is still possible to ger pregnant on birth control, though the chances are between 1% and 5%.

Just a Switzerland comment (Switzerland as in neutral)

 

[Skylarr29]

just as a scientific fact, it is possible to get a false positive if you are on birth control; most (I believe all) birth control contains HCG, which is what usually prevents pregnancy. It tricks your body into thinking your pregnant so you can't get pregnant. However, no form of birth control is 100% safe. It is still possible to ger pregnant on birth control, though the chances are between 1% and 5%.

Just a Switzerland comment (Switzerland as in neutral)

I just wanted to add that when I said that I was using birth control I should have said "we were using 'protection'" we were using only condoms so I truley do not believe that I had a false positive as I also had other symptoms as well.



Anyways, I have unsubscribed from this thread and I hope it dies and I never have to see it again.

For those of you who have sent your support through pm and email and thank you.

Take care girls.

 

[SBPbride]

I'm posting in disguise because I don't want to deal with any drama. She has trolled several private Disney websites on top of this one over the past years and for some reason all her stories are ignored. She's been engaged several different times with many different stories.

She also posted, "Well since I had cervical cancer as a teenager I was told that I might have a difficult time conceiving so we are currently not using anything and if we get pregnant before the wedding we will just change our plans... of course I hope we get pregnant right after the wedding but we just want children and will take them whenever we can get them." yet she said she got pregnant on birth control and it was a complete surprise!

I don't want anyone to waste any time feeling sorry for her...she hasn't said anything truthful in the four years she's posted here. She'll just be back under another user name. Here is the proof of the lies:

Here her posts through the years on the DIS, dating as far back as 2004.


Actively planning what appears to be a booked wedding in 2004:

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=596515&referrerid=93883

Ordered (past tense!) a special dessert for her anniversary in 2004
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=6350326#post6350326&highlight=


2005 various plans
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9472594#post9472594&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9544396#post9544396&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9668984#post9668984&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=880886&page=0&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=815466&page=1&highlight=


A quoted post announcing the engagement of her and john which appears to have happened within a week of meeting one another on line.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1044270&page=43

make sure and read the thread to post 680
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...2&postcount=680


688
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12238278&postcount=688
It appears that she just disappears off of the thread after being called out.


Been going to disney with her fiance since she was SIXTEEN!!
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=10189295#post10189295&highlight=fiance

How is that possible when you just meet and get engaged to a guy you supposedly met online within a week in 2006? Or is it 2005? 2004? All of the above? Please stop feeling sorry for her....I feel so bad for the innocent ladies on here who have such big hearts and are hurting for her.

 

[SBPbride]

You just said you were on birth control....that's not the same thing as using condoms...more lies....

 

[Skylarr29]

She also posted, "Well since I had cervical cancer as a teenager I was told that I might have a difficult time conceiving so we are currently not using anything and if we get pregnant before the wedding we will just change our plans... of course I hope we get pregnant right after the wedding but we just want children and will take them whenever we can get them." yet she said she got pregnant on birth control and it was a complete surprise!

That was true for a period of time and then we decided to stop and wait until after the wedding. If it's any of your business the personal decisions we make regarding our family.

Here her posts through the years on the DIS, dating as far back as 2004.


Actively planning what appears to be a booked wedding in 2004:

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...eferrerid=93883

Ordered (past tense!) a special dessert for her anniversary in 2004
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...0326&highlight=

Yes, a dating anniversary, not a wedding anniversary. We were together almost 6 years (throughout HIGHSCHOOL) until we broke up when I was 22.


2005 various plans
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...2594&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...4396&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...8984&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...ge=0&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...ge=1&highlight=


I was engaged ONE time prior to this... those were our plans. I am sure that I am not the first girl to have dumped a loser cheater and been engaged OMG... twice. I must be such a horrible person.
A quoted post announcing the engagement of her and john which appears to have happened within a week of meeting one another on line.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1044270&page=43

make sure and read the thread to post 680
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...2&postcount=680

Ok, now that was just a joke between me and John, whom I know and have visited Disney with. Lighten up.

688
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...8&postcount=688

It appears that she just disappears off of the thread after being called out.

Been going to disney with her fiance since she was SIXTEEN!! How is that possible when you just meet and get engaged to a guy you supposedly met online within a week in 2006? Or is it 2005? 2004? All of the above? Please stop feeling sorry for her....I feel so bad for the innocent ladies on here who have such big hearts and are hurting for her.

Ummm... we met in November of 2006. We did not get engaged after a week. We got engaged after dating for over a year.

I am glad you know so much about my life. I personally think you have way too much ****ing time on your hands. Really, get a life, and stop being a *****

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