Ah the old gallbladder. I had a love hate relationship with mine--until I got it taken out!!
I think I remember reading threads that your daughter is an adult now, right? Is she petite?? That made a big difference with me. I am fairly petite, and the nurses told me that made for a quicker recovery, but harder on the "trapped air" that gets into the body when they inflate it do to the lap procedure (yuck). I found the trapped air the most painful part of the recovery. It does feel like there is a baby elephant laying on you chest! Laying on my side was the only thing that relieved it a little bit, and it lasted about 2 days.
The day had the surgery, after it was done I remember the nurses helping me to the bathroom then saying "ok, you peed--you're set to go home". My DH was there and said I started crying and saying "you took out an organ and now your sending me home!!!" It's true, if they do take it out lap. she'll be sent home within a few hours. That night I stayed at my parents (no little ones jumping on me when I got home) and stayed in bed on pain medicine the whole time. The next morning was ready to get up and around, SLOWLY, ate lightly that night.
Thinking back, I didn't drive for about 4 or 5 days, but I remember being at the grocery store about 7 days after surgery with my DS's (5 & 2 at the time) thinking---holy cow, life does go on without a gallbladder!!!
Does your DD have kids (I think she does if I remember correctly). She'll probably be like most moms out there and bounce back pretty quickly because she'll have to, in order to take care of the kids.
Best of luck to her, and you!! Try to get her to stay with you the first night (or two). There's nothing better than being pampered by mom when you're sick or hurt. Even when you're a mom yourself!!