She often fusses at us for "letting her give up that dream."

We were homeschooling her and spending 4 - 6 hours at the rink a day (so was her brother, since we were homeschooling him. He had no interest in ice skating htough). We made her take her first set of lessons in rentals. It was a group class, and we figured she would either be determined or give up. When she was determined and the coaches said they saw natural ability, I bought her a $49 pair of skates. The second day she had them on at the rink, a lady saw her skating or trying to skate (they were not supportive enough for what she was already doing) and approached me about selling me her daughter's skates. They were $600 skates (boots and blades) back in 1997. She wanted to sell them to me for $75 which I didn't have then since we were making two house payments and such. She told me to give her a dollar down and mail her the rest when I could. Mind you, I did not know this woman before that day. She skated on those skates for about 6 months, but quickly advanced to where she had to have a stiffer boot and more precision structured blade. We felt like she was supposed to be skating with all this being handed to her. We priced those new skates out along with the blades her coach said she needed to have for the skill level where she was. Boots were $450 and blades were $500. This was still 1997. We didn't have that kind of money plus private ice time and such (friends were spending upwards of $23,000 a year at that point without travel to competitions.) I went on e-bay and found exactly what she needed for $175. Her coach admonished me saying there was no way they would be in the shape she needed if they were selling for that little. He thought the blades would be rusty or the boots broken down. They arrived and they were great - the coach was flabbergasted! We really felt like she was supposed to be skating at that point and were ready to do what we needed to help her realize this dream. She advanced again very quickly and needed a new pair of boots and blades - This time we were looking at upward of $1000 and could not find a pair of used. She also had begun to seriously waste her time at the rink (she was only 8.5 though). At the same time she decided homeschooling could take 8 - 10 hours a day, and I was not ready to wear that hat for that long each day. Long story short, we told her to shape up or she'd go back to school and that would be the end of the time she needed at the rink to go where she wanted to go. We couldn't afford private school tuition, private ice time, coaching, travel to everything, paying the coach's travel expenses and everything else (I had learned to sew her costumes since they were around $400 each.) She ended up back in school and quit skating. She could skate now on rentals, but she would not have the support she needed to do what she used to do. Her sports have always been those that required very strong legs and ankles, so I have no doubt she could get back to where she was very quickly. She still has to have very good balance and coordination for what she currently does. In terms of expense, ice skating is supposed to be second only to equestrian. That wonder buy of skates from e-bay now hangs in her room autographed by her favorite skater at that time - Ekaterina Gordeeva.
Karen - glad the snow has slowed!