Well, I would offer much of the same advice and tips that the other members have provided, with maybe a different angle. Okay, first of all, the hotel you are staying in - the GC - is beautiful (I just stayed there myself two weekends ago) and it is so welcoming and cozy that it is tough (especially after coming off the cruise) to not want to relax in its spacious lounge area. It is not the sort of hotel that makes you want to get out early and start doing things. I have gone on many trips to
Disneyland where we had NO plan of what do do beforehand, and sometimes it worked and sometimes we woudl all be standing around, looking puzzled, wondering where to go next even though we had hardly been anywhere. SO, this past September, I made up a loose agenda and made everyone stick to it and we got a lot acocmplished as far as RIDES go. Then, two weeks ago, we went and had no agenda but had more time to do other things as well as ride. But many people are happy at Disneyland if they can just squeeze in a few good rides and spend the rest of the the time strolling, shopping, eating and relaxing. Not everyone is so focused on ride this, ride that. It can get chaotic. If you think your kids would be happiest on rides, then spend as little time in shops and in the hotel as possible. If you think they would be happiest with souvenirs, hit some of the better shops - don't go in just any shop, try to hit the really good ones in the parks - on Friday night and then spend all day on Saturday riding things and eating. On our last trip in December, we zigzagged back and forth between DL and CA, between rides and shops in the park and restaurants, between Downtown Disney and the parks, back to our GC hotel and out again, every which way. It was very busy, but we got a lot accomplished in every way.
SInce you have kids with you, try to eat either breakfast or dinner at Goofy's Kitchen in the Disneyland Hotel. It is great buffet food and it is worth it for kids. If you only have a day and a half to spend, I wouldn't even bother with Downtown Disney on this trip, except for the fact that your hotel leads right out into it and it can't be avoided. But don't spend a lot of time there unless you just have to get awy from crowds. The parks WILL be crowded because it is a holiday weekend.
As for the Fast Passes, there is no point in getting them if the regular wait time for a ride in 20 minutes or less. The FP only helps you if the wait time is over 20 minutes. Keep in mind, too, that many rides have scary looking lines that move quickly so a Fast Pass is not always necessary.
Buzz Lightyear is one with a long line, but it zips along, so don't waste a fast pass on that, but DO go on it, it is worth it, and get the free email picture to yourself at the end.
Pirates always has a very ominous looking line but it goes FAST, so don't be daunted by it. If your kids are absolutely hell bent on going on the
Nemo Sub, do IT FIRST THING ON SATURDAY MORNING. Do it before you do anything else, because the line for that is looooonnnnggggg and slooooooowwwww! Otherwise, skip it this trip. It will eat up a chunk of your time standing in that line with no fast pass!
Roger Rabbit has a very fast line, it is fun for adults and kids, and the line is often short now.
Small World is closing soon so you might not have to worry about that. If you go on
Soarin' in CA, get a Fast Pass for that, and you will sail right on. It is worth it. Sherry