7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

Discussion in 'Community Board' started by TRK0011, Sep 27, 2012.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. minnie56

    minnie56 <font color=magenta>Whatever it is, he said it is

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2001
    Messages:
    7,806
    Maybe she's just overwhelmed right now, I wish she had her parents with her, she doesn't seem to talk about any good friends either, at least that she has told the news to. She needs some serious support about now
    :sad1:
     
  2. Avatar

    Google AdSense Guest Advertisement


    to hide this advert.
  3. usnuzuloose

    usnuzuloose DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2009
    Messages:
    153,000
    I wonder if her husband knows about the boards, if so not a good idea to be. On here.
     
  4. Tigger&Belle

    Tigger&Belle <font color=blue>I'm the good girl on the DIS<br><

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2000
    Messages:
    37,737
    Even if her husband does know about the boards and about her posting this thread, I don't think it would be an issue in a divorce. If *she* were the one having an affair or doing something illegal and then posting about it, that's a different matter. As a part of discovery, they will likely both have to present pictures, emails, texts, of anything that would and would matter to this case.

    I hope that she does update soon or at the very least, that she PMs some people who have posted on this thread so we will know she's ok.
     
  5. karensi

    karensi <font color=9999FF>Taking grandchildren to WDW wil

    Joined:
    Jan 28, 2000
    Messages:
    1,691
    Even if that were the case, I would imagine that she would just simply post that information. That is, that she was advised not to post any further information, and then leave it at that.
    Hope all is well. As a PP said, she is in CA and the time is earlier there than it is for us on the east coast...thinking 3 hours earlier.

    Please let us know whats happening.
    Karen :)
     
  6. D L and K's Mom

    D L and K's Mom <font color=blue>D, L and now baby Kennedy's mom!<

    Joined:
    Mar 17, 2001
    Messages:
    3,498
    I agree. I was just wondering how things were going. Hoping all is well and OP found some peace.....
     
  7. Fly4free

    Fly4free DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Jan 11, 2010
    Messages:
    612
    OP, I hope you have had some of your questions answered by now. Please take care of yourself during this stressful time. My heart goes out to you.
     
  8. MrsPete

    MrsPete DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Feb 24, 2002
    Messages:
    11,869
    OP, we'd all like to hear how you're doing.

    I personally suspect that her absence may be because she's trying to make a go of it with her husband, trying to work things out and regain some of what they once had; whereas so many of you have painted him as an absolute villain -- scum of the earth, no hope of redemption, ever.

    Or, maybe she's actually having the baby. I hope not because an early baby would only add to the weight on her shoulders.
     
  9. aprilgail2

    aprilgail2 Guest

    Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater--may not happen that month but eventually a cheater will be cheating again.
     
  10. firecracker725

    firecracker725 Somethin' Clever

    Joined:
    Apr 12, 2010
    Messages:
    1,264
    I think at this point, it is inappropriate to make assumptions about what the OP is doing and why she hasn't updated. Just my two cents...
     
  11. DVCJones

    DVCJones DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2006
    Messages:
    2,024
    I just noticed that this thread was started on 9/27 yet the OP profile has a joined date of 9/9.

    In the original post she says she JUST found out her H was having an affair the day before the first post....? Also said she didn't want this thread linked to her real Dis name...?

    I hope we all weren't duped with a fake thread. Or, maybe I am, as it would mean some poor woman isn't really going through this.

    I guess I'm wondering why her account was started 18 days before her original post.
     
  12. usnuzuloose

    usnuzuloose DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Sep 20, 2009
    Messages:
    153,000
    It's hard to know on forums.
     
  13. 3smithboys

    3smithboys DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Aug 22, 2008
    Messages:
    1,439
    I have been reading this thread since the beginning and checking back every day too. I also feel horrible for the OP and have even discussed with my DH...but I have also been on the Dis long enough too and have seen things just like you have described above, and I have also wondered the same thing... I sure hope this isn't the case because this particular OP has really touched so many people - I hope there isn't someone out there laughing at all of our expense...

    (and I am not accusing the OP of this because she has not gotten back to us - there could be a million reasons why...)
     
  14. LongLiveDisney

    LongLiveDisney DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 26, 2011
    Messages:
    1,262
    I must admit I noticed the same thing when I saw the first post and her join date. It could be that she was just a lurker on the boards and then posted when she found out because I don't think this could be a joke. It's too much and too detailed. I hope the OP's okay. :goodvibes
     
  15. sandramaac

    sandramaac <font color=blue>Needs to look harder...<br><font

    Joined:
    May 12, 2001
    Messages:
    1,313
    Lord, hope I didn't get duped into another faux thread-especially after the last one with the mom with the dying kid :confused3--I will feel so bad for everyone!! :crazy2: And An idiot myself :clown:


    But starting the thread 18 days before, and the saying she didn't want to use her real DIS name--perhaps she suspected at that point and didn't post till she really knew???

    Just looked at her profile, and her last activity was way back on 10/1 at 8:45 pm. Does that mean the last time the OP woould have posted, on just been online on DIS period??
     
  16. sandramaac

    sandramaac <font color=blue>Needs to look harder...<br><font

    Joined:
    May 12, 2001
    Messages:
    1,313
    But look at ALL the detail on the post the mom made with the kid that was dying a few months ago. Hope it isn't the same person--gotta go look at the other thread and see if any similar things in the writing style. Please don;t let this be anoter hoax and mom and baby are just walking away for a few days to catch their breath!!
     
  17. minnie56

    minnie56 <font color=magenta>Whatever it is, he said it is

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2001
    Messages:
    7,806
    Oh jeeeez I hope not...
    Can't the mods check the IP address??? It should be stopped IF IF IF it is indeed a haux...

    I as have so many, been so worried ...
     
  18. SaraJayne

    SaraJayne <font color=red>Stop moving those smilies! <img sr

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2009
    Messages:
    12,080
    Last time online.

    I'm not ready to call hoax just yet. She may be otherwise occupied and her first priority isn't updating strangers on an internet message board. :)
     
  19. mrsksomeday

    mrsksomeday My Prince uses a power wheelchair!

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2006
    Messages:
    7,685
    I am choosing to believe the OP. How would you feel if this was going on in your life, you came here to get some type of support/advice, and were doubted because of your join date? There are many reasons why she might not have updated yet.


    She has enough chaos in her life and I choose not to add to it. If I am duped, so be it.
     
  20. SallySkelington

    SallySkelington <In mourning of my lost tag>

    Joined:
    Jan 15, 2011
    Messages:
    1,055
    I have been lurking for a while and have chosen not to offer advice, simply because so many have done so and I feel it's not needed. However my heart does go out to the OP. May she be well and safe.

    As for the matter of the OP's joining date, it would take some time for me to work up the courage post something that personal on a forum. And yes it could take me 18 days, perhaps longer.
     
  21. teller80

    teller80 DIS Veteran

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2012
    Messages:
    554
    What thread was that?
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.

Share This Page