7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

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Maybe she's just overwhelmed right now, I wish she had her parents with her, she doesn't seem to talk about any good friends either, at least that she has told the news to. She needs some serious support about now
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Even if her husband does know about the boards and about her posting this thread, I don't think it would be an issue in a divorce. If *she* were the one having an affair or doing something illegal and then posting about it, that's a different matter. As a part of discovery, they will likely both have to present pictures, emails, texts, of anything that would and would matter to this case.

I hope that she does update soon or at the very least, that she PMs some people who have posted on this thread so we will know she's ok.
 
Perhaps the lawyer told her not to post anything on message boards. Is it possible some other lawyer could get ahold of this thread and use it against her? I don't know law but it seems possible.

Even if that were the case, I would imagine that she would just simply post that information. That is, that she was advised not to post any further information, and then leave it at that.
Hope all is well. As a PP said, she is in CA and the time is earlier there than it is for us on the east coast...thinking 3 hours earlier.

Please let us know whats happening.
Karen :)
 


I agree. I was just wondering how things were going. Hoping all is well and OP found some peace.....
 
OP, I hope you have had some of your questions answered by now. Please take care of yourself during this stressful time. My heart goes out to you.
 
OP, we'd all like to hear how you're doing.

I personally suspect that her absence may be because she's trying to make a go of it with her husband, trying to work things out and regain some of what they once had; whereas so many of you have painted him as an absolute villain -- scum of the earth, no hope of redemption, ever.

Or, maybe she's actually having the baby. I hope not because an early baby would only add to the weight on her shoulders.
 


OP, we'd all like to hear how you're doing.

I personally suspect that her absence may be because she's trying to make a go of it with her husband, trying to work things out and regain some of what they once had; whereas so many of you have painted him as an absolute villain -- scum of the earth, no hope of redemption, ever.

Or, maybe she's actually having the baby. I hope not because an early baby would only add to the weight on her shoulders.

Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater--may not happen that month but eventually a cheater will be cheating again.
 
I think at this point, it is inappropriate to make assumptions about what the OP is doing and why she hasn't updated. Just my two cents...
 
I just noticed that this thread was started on 9/27 yet the OP profile has a joined date of 9/9.

In the original post she says she JUST found out her H was having an affair the day before the first post....? Also said she didn't want this thread linked to her real Dis name...?

I hope we all weren't duped with a fake thread. Or, maybe I am, as it would mean some poor woman isn't really going through this.

I guess I'm wondering why her account was started 18 days before her original post.
 
I just noticed that this thread was started on 9/27 yet the OP profile has a joined date of 9/9.

In the original post she says she JUST found out her H was having an affair the day before the first post....? Also said she didn't want this thread linked to her real Dis name...?

I hope we all weren't duped with a fake thread. Or, maybe I am, as it would mean some poor woman isn't really going through this.

I guess I'm wondering why her account was started 18 days before her original post.

I have been reading this thread since the beginning and checking back every day too. I also feel horrible for the OP and have even discussed with my DH...but I have also been on the Dis long enough too and have seen things just like you have described above, and I have also wondered the same thing... I sure hope this isn't the case because this particular OP has really touched so many people - I hope there isn't someone out there laughing at all of our expense...

(and I am not accusing the OP of this because she has not gotten back to us - there could be a million reasons why...)
 
DVCJones said:
I just noticed that this thread was started on 9/27 yet the OP profile has a joined date of 9/9.

In the original post she says she JUST found out her H was having an affair the day before the first post....? Also said she didn't want this thread linked to her real Dis name...?

I hope we all weren't duped with a fake thread. Or, maybe I am, as it would mean some poor woman isn't really going through this.

I guess I'm wondering why her account was started 18 days before her original post.

I must admit I noticed the same thing when I saw the first post and her join date. It could be that she was just a lurker on the boards and then posted when she found out because I don't think this could be a joke. It's too much and too detailed. I hope the OP's okay. :goodvibes
 
Lord, hope I didn't get duped into another faux thread-especially after the last one with the mom with the dying kid :confused3--I will feel so bad for everyone!! :crazy2: And An idiot myself :clown:


But starting the thread 18 days before, and the saying she didn't want to use her real DIS name--perhaps she suspected at that point and didn't post till she really knew???

Just looked at her profile, and her last activity was way back on 10/1 at 8:45 pm. Does that mean the last time the OP woould have posted, on just been online on DIS period??
 
I must admit I noticed the same thing when I saw the first post and her join date. It could be that she was just a lurker on the boards and then posted when she found out because I don't think this could be a joke. It's too much and too detailed. I hope the OP's okay. :goodvibes

But look at ALL the detail on the post the mom made with the kid that was dying a few months ago. Hope it isn't the same person--gotta go look at the other thread and see if any similar things in the writing style. Please don;t let this be anoter hoax and mom and baby are just walking away for a few days to catch their breath!!
 
Oh jeeeez I hope not...
Can't the mods check the IP address??? It should be stopped IF IF IF it is indeed a haux...

I as have so many, been so worried ...
 
Lord, hope I didn't get duped into another faux thread-especially after the last one with the mom with the dying kid :confused3--I will feel so bad for everyone!! :crazy2: And An idiot myself :clown:


But starting the thread 18 days before, and the saying she didn't want to use her real DIS name--perhaps she suspected at that point and didn't post till she really knew???

Just looked at her profile, and her last activity was way back on 10/1 at 8:45 pm. Does that mean the last time the OP woould have posted, on just been online on DIS period??

Last time online.

I'm not ready to call hoax just yet. She may be otherwise occupied and her first priority isn't updating strangers on an internet message board. :)
 
I am choosing to believe the OP. How would you feel if this was going on in your life, you came here to get some type of support/advice, and were doubted because of your join date? There are many reasons why she might not have updated yet.


She has enough chaos in her life and I choose not to add to it. If I am duped, so be it.
 
I have been lurking for a while and have chosen not to offer advice, simply because so many have done so and I feel it's not needed. However my heart does go out to the OP. May she be well and safe.

As for the matter of the OP's joining date, it would take some time for me to work up the courage post something that personal on a forum. And yes it could take me 18 days, perhaps longer.
 
But look at ALL the detail on the post the mom made with the kid that was dying a few months ago. Hope it isn't the same person--gotta go look at the other thread and see if any similar things in the writing style. Please don;t let this be anoter hoax and mom and baby are just walking away for a few days to catch their breath!!

What thread was that?
 
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