Forget the pendant.
This is what I'm doing with my ashes! Each of my kids gets one!
https://www.cremationsolutions.com/cremation-urns-for-ashes/personal-cremation-urns-ashes/
OH. MY. GOOOOOOOSH!!!!!!!
That is one of the creepiest things I've ever seen! Oh my gosh!!!! I'm laughing and crying at the same time. Holy cow!!!!