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- Nov 5, 2000
I agree. The thing for the OP to do right now is lay low, plan quietly and get out quickly when the time comes.
Ship some clothing (yours and/or baby's)beforehand if you think it can be done without husband noticing.
Ship small things with sentimental value beforehand if you think it can be done with husband noticing.
Gather important papers together (copies of financial info, tax returns, credit card bills and balances, savings accounts, retirement accounts) so they are ready to go into the carryon.
Have a mental list in terms of what you are packing as far as your clothing, the baby's clothing etc., so that on "leaving day" you can pack quickly.
The idea about Mom having a smaller suitcase inside a bigger one is good. If Mom is only coming for a quick day or two to get you out, then she shouldn't need many clothes and so therefore with her 2 suitcases, plus your two suitcases, you could maximize what you take.
Don't forget the computer!!!!!!
Don't contact his family until you are safely settled in Canada, and then only under the advice of an attorney...even then, I'd probably be hesitant to contact them, frankly.
Ship some clothing (yours and/or baby's)beforehand if you think it can be done without husband noticing.
Ship small things with sentimental value beforehand if you think it can be done with husband noticing.
Gather important papers together (copies of financial info, tax returns, credit card bills and balances, savings accounts, retirement accounts) so they are ready to go into the carryon.
Have a mental list in terms of what you are packing as far as your clothing, the baby's clothing etc., so that on "leaving day" you can pack quickly.
The idea about Mom having a smaller suitcase inside a bigger one is good. If Mom is only coming for a quick day or two to get you out, then she shouldn't need many clothes and so therefore with her 2 suitcases, plus your two suitcases, you could maximize what you take.
Don't forget the computer!!!!!!
Don't contact his family until you are safely settled in Canada, and then only under the advice of an attorney...even then, I'd probably be hesitant to contact them, frankly.