11 is the youngest? I wouldn't skip anything. TOT and RnR are probably the "scariest" but many 11 yr olds ride them, depending if they like thrill rides or not.
Why would you skip rides? If one of you doesn't want to ride, then don't ride. But I wouldn't write any rides off, whether they are "too babyish" or "too scary." I say ,"Try it, you'll like it."
Disnee Dad Says.......................................What are the ages of the little kids???? If 11yo is a little kid, just be thankfull, next year he is a full fledged adult by Disney standards.
By 11, it is likely that mom will back out of more rides than the 11 yo!
We last went two years ago and my sons were 6 and 8 then. They rode everything they were tall enough to.
The 8 year old was too small to ride Hulk at Universal and was very disappointed. By contrast his friend visited at the same time and wouldn't go on any rides!
I don't think its possible to decide what they will/won't go on until the day, still surprised my 6 year old at the time went on ToT.
As of age 10, my dd was riding everything and she is a chicken heart!!! She did do ToT twice and the second time it almost traumatized her so she won't do that one again. She held out on doing RnRC until she was 10 since she was to scared. Now, she loves it and I can't keep her off it. Do all the rides at least once. We still do Winnie the Pooh every single trip. We miss nothing. It's all part of the 'scene'!!! Have a ball.
I have been to Disney several times, the first time being 1986 when I was 10 years old. I did not make it onto some of those "kiddie" rides until the year 2000 and I LOVED them! There was so much that I missed out on because i just thought the rides were for little kids and never took the time to go on. Now some of those rides are my absolute favorite.