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[Hawaiidood]

i live smack dab in the middle of the bible belt and my sex ed teacher (had six kids, all girls, and two of them were teen mothers) wouldn't talk about condoms in class because, and i quote, "they don't prevent all stds"

uh, no, but they prevent pregnancy! and AIDS!

she was infuriating.

Another reason why spirituality means SOOOOO much more to me than religion.

 

[Princess victoria]

Yep
it happened at my school. People were in a circle actually covering for them too. It's rediculous. The lights were kept on this year because of it.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Uh. Ew.
I'm glad I don't attend dances.

 

[dancer067]

that's just wierd. I would never even think about doing that. its a way to get attention, but not the kind of attention I'd think people would want.

 

[Sparx]

The sad thing is.. that people think this IS normal. This is NOT normal. It is disgusting.

People do it for attention, and it's quite pathetic.

it is definitely not normal to have sex in public.

but teenagers feeling sexual is, but they're not taught how to deal with these feelings in a safe and healthy manner, which is why kids are doing it at any chance they get.

 

[Hawaiidood]

it is definitely not normal to have sex in public.

but teenagers feeling sexual is, but they're not taught how to deal with these feelings in a safe and healthy manner, which is why kids are doing it at any chance they get.

Thank you Thank you Thank you thank you!

 

[WDWtraveler27]

i go to an all guy school so i really really hope this isnt happening inside the school. but for school dances, i dont know. i have not attended any of them so far.

 

[Hawaiidood]

i go to an all guy school so i really really hope this isnt happening inside the school. but for school dances, i dont know. i have not attended any of them so far.

Really?! I never knew that! The boys school thing.

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

My school is very strict with dances. Teachers wear "No Grinding" shirts to the dance, and they throw out the teenagers who do it.

I think it is disgusting that teens have to stoop so low as to have sex in the middle of a dance floor. Do it in your car, or somewhere a little more private, and more sanitary.

I believe in abstinence but I am also not stupid to think that most teenagers don't. Parents shouldn't be stupid about it either.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

I don't believe in abstinence but I do believe in "discretion". Should you hook up with every guy you meet? No!

But its okay if you're careful about it, and selective (meaning you must really care about this person and not in the hormonal teenage way).

I figur you don't want to be stuck with someone you end up not being sexually compatible with for the rest of your life, too. But I'm weird.

Don't listen to me, I'm rambling xD

 

[StitchfansJr]

Uh. Ew.
I'm glad I don't attend dances.

Yeah, I know. D:

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

I don't believe in abstinence but I do believe in "discretion". Should you hook up with every guy you meet? No!

But its okay if you're careful about it, and selective (meaning you must really care about this person and not in the hormonal teenage way).

I figur you don't want to be stuck with someone you end up not being sexually compatible with for the rest of your life, too. But I'm weird.

Don't listen to me, I'm rambling xD

I agree with this. I think if you are really serious about someone it is perfectly fine to have sex. You would want to know if you two are right for each other physically.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Also, in 7th grade I went to a dance. It was a nonformal one. An 8th grader walked up to me and started grinding me, I just rolled my eyes at him and walked the opposite direction.

I never was a person to go at dances, anyway. I can't dance and I hate dressing up. I'd rather sit at home.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

I agree with this. I think if you are really serious about someone it is perfectly fine to have sex. You would want to know if you two are right for each other physically.

Yeah, that's what I was trying to say, but I couldn't think of the right words

 

[Coffee Maker]

Well these days teenagers are more liberated and daring compared to years past. I haven't seen sex in the dance floor personally, or in bathrooms, but if teenagers want to have sex there are opportunities everywhere. I just hope these teenagers would practice safe-sex, and not be so careless... the sex part is easy, the baby is the hard part.

 

[goofysk8]

I don't believe in abstinence but I do believe in "discretion". Should you hook up with every guy you meet? No!

But its okay if you're careful about it, and selective (meaning you must really care about this person and not in the hormonal teenage way).

I figur you don't want to be stuck with someone you end up not being sexually compatible with for the rest of your life, too. But I'm weird.

Don't listen to me, I'm rambling xD

I agree Your not rambling.
People just needs to be more sanitary & understand "where they are at."
Honestly, it's just kids that don't understand what they are really there to do.

 

[PosessedEeyore]

My school dances are monitered but the teachers don't do anything. Funny thing is, I go to Catholic school and in religion class all we ever talk about is not to have sex. Yet at dances, teachers are letting it happen.

 

[WDWtraveler27]

Really?! I never knew that! The boys school thing.

yeah... it sucks sometimes...the no girls part...

 

[3mtn-kate]

I've never heard about stuff like that happening at dances (although I'm sure it has) but I know that after school people sneak off to classrooms and do all sorts of nasty stuff... A bunch of my friends have gotten caught with (random) guys in classrooms or in the autotorium, it's terrible. Like it feels like to me it would be so unnecessary and disgusting, it's just ughhhh. It makes me mad.

 

[inlalaland]

Dang, at my homecoming grinding was like the only thing people did.
My friend and I were like o__O and just kinda did our own thing. xD
I know it's not the same as sex obviously, didn't see any of that thank God but I do know of people doing it in the bathrooms at school. Yuck.