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goofinoff

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I just found out that someone I have worked with for 10 years was just arrested at work. I heard for embezzelment. I'm sick over it. I never would have thought this person would have done that. I know this person very well, in fact I was this person's boss for 3 years. I'm in shock!
 
I had a sort of similar situation. The girl that took my position at my last job when left after having dd ending up embezzeling like 40k. I was the one that trained her and I had known her for years. I felt so sick when I found out.

It really throws you off when someone you think you knew does something like that. I'm sorry that you're dealing with this.
 
I just found out that someone I have worked with for 10 years was just arrested at work. I heard for embezzelment. I'm sick over it. I never would have thought this person would have done that. I know this person very well, in fact I was this person's boss for 3 years. I'm in shock!


As someone who has been arrested and was totally innocent (Long story!), I'd say that you should at least hear out the person accused if you are as sure as you seem to be about their personality. Everything is not always as you are told.
 
In the same morbid category, I knew three murderers - all fairly well. Went to college with one of them, worked with two of them.
 

As someone who has been arrested and was totally innocent (Long story!), I'd say that you should at least hear out the person accused if you are as sure as you seem to be about their personality. Everything is not always as you are told.


I work for a VERY large corporation who must have their I's dotted and their T's crossed before they even begin to think about investigating anyone. There is quite a process that they need to go through before they can even start talking with the person let alone fire them or have them arrested. So as much as I would love to believe that this person is innocent, the fact that the police were involved and is now terminated from the company tells me that they are not. It breaks my heart. This person has children and a spouse. I can't stop thinking about what they all must be going through. :confused:
 
Oh hey, hi "Portland" (goofinoff). Sorry...so many on here seem to be across the country, it kinda excites me to see people on my coast.

Anyhow...I can completely relate to this. My niece was arrested for embezzlement. :eek: :eek: :eek: It was very shocking for the whole family, and yes she did it. She went wacko with the company credit card, buying expensive Christmas presents and taking friends out for dinner and drinks at swanky places.

I also vividly remember being at work one day about ten years ago and having the police come in and take my manager out in handcuffs. :eek: That one was a little more of a grey area. Her boyfriend had been borrowing her car during the day while she was at work, supposedly to look for a job, and was running drugs instead. She told me she knew he smoked pot but had no idea he was involved with dealing let alone using her car to run the drugs. I believed her...she was a pretty upfront person. Her car was seized and she was arrested but not convicted. If I remember correctly the charges were ultimately dropped against her. She never got her car back, though.
 
I work for a VERY large corporation who must have their I's dotted and their T's crossed before they even begin to think about investigating anyone. There is quite a process that they need to go through before they can even start talking with the person let alone fire them or have them arrested. So as much as I would love to believe that this person is innocent, the fact that the police were involved and is now terminated from the company tells me that they are not. It breaks my heart. This person has children and a spouse. I can't stop thinking about what they all must be going through. :confused:

I understand how you view it this way. Not trying to :stir: ...just to present another side.:hug:

Everything you just wrote could be said for my case too. VERY large company. (Nationwide) Fairly well known. Their rules had rules. ;) Police were involved. Fired. Arrested(10 days after 2nd child was born). Charged with felony theft. Not a fun time. I'm sure people thought those things about me too. Except for the potential break-up of my family, that was the worst part...the people who just believed i was guilty.:(
 
One school I worked in as a department head had the best administration I ever worked with including clerical staff. Everybody was so hard-working and friendly. After I left for a different job I came back to visit and found out that the Financial Secretary who handled hundreds of thousands of dollars each year was under investigation for writing false checks to her boyfriend using school funds. They were living in a tent in a local campground while trying to repay the money and work out a restitution plan. She was absolutely the last person anyone would have suspected of wrongdoing since she had received a Citizen of the Year Award from our Mayor the prior year!
 
I used to work in a hotel, and in the span of a few years, around 5 different people were fired for embezzlement. Not all of them had charges brought against them, though. One just had to pay restitution (which her fiancee paid). None of them were people I would have ever suspected of embezzlement! They each found creative ways to do it. But, in the end, they all got caught. ::yes::
 
I understand how you view it this way. Not trying to :stir: ...just to present another side.:hug:

Everything you just wrote could be said for my case too. VERY large company. (Nationwide) Fairly well known. Their rules had rules. ;) Police were involved. Fired. Arrested(10 days after 2nd child was born). Charged with felony theft. Not a fun time. I'm sure people thought those things about me too. Except for the potential break-up of my family, that was the worst part...the people who just believed i was guilty.:(

I'm sorry for what you went through. :hug: Were you cleared? How did the company screw up so badly?
How did things end up?
 
I've always worked around finances and money....just recently we had someone process credits back to his own credit card in our company, great worker, dependable but got behind and thought he could sneak it by. It's amazing to me that people really think they can get away with it....there is an audit trail there somewhere.
 
OceanAnnie

:thanks:

Charges were dropped against me.

... PM'd ya!
 
Many years ago I worked with a girl and eventually became a boss in our area, though she did not work under me. She was so very well respected in the company and she was always receiving some type of recognition or bonus.

Lo and Behold, she was arrested and taken out in hand cuffs for stealing from the company BIG TIME and she was in allegedly in cohoots with some attorney that also did work for the company with some type of kick back deal! Talk about being blown away. UNBELIEVEABLE. so very sad!
 
Someone I worked with was arrested for child pornography! :faint:

I worked in an ad agency and he was one of the voice talents I used all the time for broadcast. He had 2 adorable children that he and his wife adopted. I saw him on the news one night being led to a cop car in handcuffs and about DIED!!! I often wonder what became of his wife and kids. Don't even know if he is still in jail, but I would hope so.

Anyway...talk about feeling sick.

Oh, and did I mention he was also a DJ for a very right-wing Contemporary Christian Radio Station???
 
As someone who has been arrested and was totally innocent (Long story!), I'd say that you should at least hear out the person accused if you are as sure as you seem to be about their personality. Everything is not always as you are told.

I would agree. This happened to one of our neighbors too. The neighbor actually was stuck in the middle of a family argument in a small family business. She was charged with a felony, and was found entirely not-guilty.
 
I would agree. This happened to one of our neighbors too. The neighbor actually was stuck in the middle of a family argument in a small family business. She was charged with a felony, and was found entirely not-guilty.

Just want to tell you that I LOVE your tag! DH is the pixie stik narc here. Something about me being spastic when I eat them? :hyper: I think he over-reacts! :lmao:
 
Police were involved. Fired. Arrested(10 days after 2nd child was born). Charged with felony theft. Not a fun time. I'm sure people thought those things about me too. Except for the potential break-up of my family, that was the worst part...the people who just believed i was guilty

How awful! :( Especially to have that happen with a ten day old baby at home. That just makes me really sad. I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad charges were ultimately dropped.
 
Growing up our friends mother took a lot of $$ from the company she worked for..I had known this lady for over 20 years:eek: and would of never thought she would of done something like that,,, she was tried and convicted, served her time but they never found all the $$. Currently she seems to be living off the money, brand new mustang, hummer and a Harley, bought 2 cars for her 2 daughters and currently living in a penthouse in AC... I don't think they would be able to afford all this on their current job,,, filling up vending machines in the prison...She served less than a year!!
 
i had 4 co-workers who embezzeled upwards of hundreds of thousands of dollars in public funds:furious: after the first one was discovered the others were caught because our department decided to initiate an internal fraud division. while i was angry about the people who did the actual fraud i was even angrier because it could have been entirely prevented if their supervisors had done their jobs (there were checks and balances that we were to do as supervisors, the sups in these cases just did'nt do their jobs)-and nothing was done to make those supervisors accountable:furious: :furious: :furious:

with one of the cases the district attny's office took particular enjoyment in how the arrest played out. the employee had always been very arrogant, and had a history of being rude to the d.a. investigators (we interacted with them on client fraud investigations). by the time the embezzlement had been discovered the employee had resigned to go to a high profile law school. as soon as she caught wind that she had been found out she hired a hot shot attny to represent her and to arrange turning herself in. the attny was every bit as arrogant and condescending, and developed a habit of not returning phone calls as timely as he should have. after making a good faith effort to arrange for the employee to turn herself in and not getting a response from her attny the d.a. decided he was'nt going to wait any longer-so 2 of the investigators and a couple of officers were dispatched to the now former employee's law school where they marched into a lecture hall of hundreds of students, and arrested and cuffed her on the spot:thumbsup2 :thumbsup2 i heard she tried to negotiate a plea in the hopes of not getting a conviction that would preclude her from practicing law, but it was no dice-she received several felony convictions and did a little over 2 years in state prison:thumbsup2 :thumbsup2 :thumbsup2
 


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