I wasn't particularly close with any of the kids in my class, and it was a very large class, over 900 students, so I didn't go to any of the reunions. However, when the 40th rolled around, I was going to be in the state anyhow for a family issue so I decided to go. I had such a good time, I brought DH with me to the 45th, and it was even more fun! We have just started planning for the 50th, which will be in Sept 2024- and I can't wait!
Here's what I learned: Nobody is who they were in high school and a lot of the crap doesn't matter anymore. People DO remember you (especially if there are name tags with your yearbook picture on them- sure helped!). I like seeing how people's lives turned out. I also realized that there is a comfort in talking to people who "get" you, who have the same roots and background as you do. Anyhow, I am wicked glad I went to the 40th reunion, and will keep going every 5 years for as long as we have them (and I can get there)!