mykidsand_i
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OK, I am starting this thread for those of you WHO ARE EXPOSED (parent, grandparent, caregivers, school staff) TO SCHOOL AGE KIDS...
What do YOU think of year around school? I have very strong feelings leaning towards not doing it, but it's because of past experiances I have. I'm not saying it's bad for every kid, and there are situations it may actually help a kid. BUT, I don't believe that most kids would benifit from it.
I have training in child Psych. and I have my feelings about this issue:
1. If ANY parent has complained about how their family is TOO busy, it wouldn't get less busy if school was year around! It would be worse. AND the LARGEST problem for elementary students (in our district) nowdays is the fact that their parents don't spend enough time WITH them. It is a fact. A lot of parents 'overschedule their kids'. We have a 'rule of thumb' that we tell parents of kids who are struggling in school. Do not allow your children to be enrolled in activities more than 2-3 nights a week durring the school year.
YES, some kids can do a TON of activities, but the majority of ELEMENTARY aged students who struggle in school have 1 of 2 issues- 1- Over scheduled or 2- poor home life.
My next reason...
2. When are KIDS allowed to be KIDS if they are going to school year around?
-going to summer camps (wether it be scouts, church camp, fun camps)...when would there be time for kids to experiance that? I'm not talking about the 2-4 week camps that people know of in large cities such as new York or where ever...I'm talking about the 1/2 week or full week camp that I grew up going to. I believe summer camps are a great thing for kids to develop.
-playing at the pool...I'll use our town for an example. Three years ago there was this beautiful outdoor pool and waterpark built. They close in mid-August, because that's when the H.S. lifeguards start school. If the pool is open, ALL of it has to be maintained on a DAILY BASIS, so if it's only open on weekends, the maintinence costs wouldn't get taken care of just by weekend opening...SO, it closes durring the entire school year- even in the hottest part of the summer here, which is mid-late August. If there was year around school, things like that would suffer.
-vacations. A HUGE amount of families go on vacations in the summer- HUGE amount. We camp A LOT, we go on one big vacation AND my kids look forward to going to stay with their grandparents once or twice for a week.
3. THE COST!!!!! It costs the states, government and US a TON of money for schooling each DAY. Adding days is only going to hurt the US financially.
4. BEING A KID is PART of a child's education!!!!! My kids learn A LOT in the summer months that they can't learn in school. They learn about LIFE...they experiance things that they could not if school was year around!
5. In the midwest and other areas, parents DEPEND on their kids to have summer vacation to help with farming, to help with picking up jobs for summer travelers, to help with family buisnesses. When i was growing up, it was NORMAL for some farm kids to take days off from school to help their parents durring the harvest. Parents in the midwest STILL do this- not as often, but it does happen.
I believe if school was a year around thing, I would home school. I know they'd have to continue their education through out the summer too, but at least we'd be able to have the time to take them on vacations still, they'd still get to experiance being kids, they'd still get to go stay with grandparents on occasion...
Those are my reasons. I have more. I don't believe that parents who support all year school are wrong, I just believe they have different life experiances than my family has had.
I didn't start this thread for people to come on and 'fight' about their opinions and state why others are 'wrong, or right'...I just like to hear others opinions on the subject. I want to understand why people feel the way they do. I know that there are people who support all year school fully- And for their kids, maybe it's a good thing.
I think it's localized...some larger cities, it may work really well for- but for us smaller midwestern towns, I don't think it makes any sense.
What do YOU think of year around school? I have very strong feelings leaning towards not doing it, but it's because of past experiances I have. I'm not saying it's bad for every kid, and there are situations it may actually help a kid. BUT, I don't believe that most kids would benifit from it.
I have training in child Psych. and I have my feelings about this issue:
1. If ANY parent has complained about how their family is TOO busy, it wouldn't get less busy if school was year around! It would be worse. AND the LARGEST problem for elementary students (in our district) nowdays is the fact that their parents don't spend enough time WITH them. It is a fact. A lot of parents 'overschedule their kids'. We have a 'rule of thumb' that we tell parents of kids who are struggling in school. Do not allow your children to be enrolled in activities more than 2-3 nights a week durring the school year.
YES, some kids can do a TON of activities, but the majority of ELEMENTARY aged students who struggle in school have 1 of 2 issues- 1- Over scheduled or 2- poor home life.
My next reason...
2. When are KIDS allowed to be KIDS if they are going to school year around?
-going to summer camps (wether it be scouts, church camp, fun camps)...when would there be time for kids to experiance that? I'm not talking about the 2-4 week camps that people know of in large cities such as new York or where ever...I'm talking about the 1/2 week or full week camp that I grew up going to. I believe summer camps are a great thing for kids to develop.
-playing at the pool...I'll use our town for an example. Three years ago there was this beautiful outdoor pool and waterpark built. They close in mid-August, because that's when the H.S. lifeguards start school. If the pool is open, ALL of it has to be maintained on a DAILY BASIS, so if it's only open on weekends, the maintinence costs wouldn't get taken care of just by weekend opening...SO, it closes durring the entire school year- even in the hottest part of the summer here, which is mid-late August. If there was year around school, things like that would suffer.
-vacations. A HUGE amount of families go on vacations in the summer- HUGE amount. We camp A LOT, we go on one big vacation AND my kids look forward to going to stay with their grandparents once or twice for a week.
3. THE COST!!!!! It costs the states, government and US a TON of money for schooling each DAY. Adding days is only going to hurt the US financially.
4. BEING A KID is PART of a child's education!!!!! My kids learn A LOT in the summer months that they can't learn in school. They learn about LIFE...they experiance things that they could not if school was year around!
5. In the midwest and other areas, parents DEPEND on their kids to have summer vacation to help with farming, to help with picking up jobs for summer travelers, to help with family buisnesses. When i was growing up, it was NORMAL for some farm kids to take days off from school to help their parents durring the harvest. Parents in the midwest STILL do this- not as often, but it does happen.
I believe if school was a year around thing, I would home school. I know they'd have to continue their education through out the summer too, but at least we'd be able to have the time to take them on vacations still, they'd still get to experiance being kids, they'd still get to go stay with grandparents on occasion...
Those are my reasons. I have more. I don't believe that parents who support all year school are wrong, I just believe they have different life experiances than my family has had.
I didn't start this thread for people to come on and 'fight' about their opinions and state why others are 'wrong, or right'...I just like to hear others opinions on the subject. I want to understand why people feel the way they do. I know that there are people who support all year school fully- And for their kids, maybe it's a good thing.
I think it's localized...some larger cities, it may work really well for- but for us smaller midwestern towns, I don't think it makes any sense.