I'm personally still struggling with this a lot. It haunted my dreams last night. Both my fiance and I were big Benoit fans and neither of us can really settle this in our minds. The stories all have little but important differences (who was killed when, who called to have the police check...) so I don't really know what to believe right now.
To the person that was sickened by just watching a tribute to him and this happened? I'm so sorry you feel that way. But remember, what he is suspected of (emphasis on suspected) doesn't invalidate the amazing things in wrestling he did. His friends and fans did not know him as this person that would do something like this, and they're hurting. They're probably hurting that much more now that they're finding this out. And if they want to pay tribute to the great things he did in life, then more power to them!