would you let your 16 year old spend the night at the boy/girl friends house?

[mommiepoppins]

I was just wondering. Do you have a problem with your teenagers sleeping at the girl/ boyfriends house?

 

[Mouse House Mama]

H to the no!!!!
I don't even think sleepovers in general are necesarry but there is no way I would let a tenn sleep over their boyfriend or girlfriend's house.

 

[Zippa D Doodah]

My kids aren't that age yet, but I will not be allowing that.

 

[Kimberle]

no

 

[tchrrx]

No way, not a chance!

 

[mommiepoppins]

ok i thought it was just me.
here is the story my friends dd is in LOVE with my friends, best friends son.( mind you HE just had a child by some other girl)
history* two years ago my friend
would let the boy spend the night over..Because it was her best friends son and her dd and him were"dating" when her ddd was 14 and they would fall asleep in each others arms anyway the boy moved and my friends dd has had a long distance love affair with this boy( who recently just had a baby that he has not seen by anothor girl) any way my friend was going to drop her dd off at her best frinds for the night(the mothers best friend) house knowing that that boy has just moved back home.. I think she is nutts!

 

[pfishgirl]

Being the Mother of a 17 year old son.. I think it would really depend on the situation.. Do her parents know and agree? Are they going out til late so sleeping over would be easier? Are her parents going to be there all night? etc etc

When DS was young his friends girls and boys would sleep over all the time We would make little parties out of it..

 

[happygirl]

nope

 

[4greatboys]

No I wouldnt.

 

[DawnCt1]

I was just wondering. Do you have a problem with your teenagers sleeping at the girl/ boyfriends house?

Yes. The only exception I would make would be a blizzard with 12 ft high snow drifts or flowing hot lava obstructing the route back home.

 

[tchrrx]

Yes. The only exception I would make would be a blizzard with 12 ft high snow drifts or flowing hot lava obstructing the route back home.

But, Baby it's cold outside......

 

[StrollPatrolMom]

IF I knew their parents were on the same page as we were, then yes.

My boyfriend in high school spent the night at our house on many occasions for one reason or another.

We never shared the same bed though...in fact pretty sure my dad probably stood outside mt bedroom door with a baseball bat all night

I would not allow my high schooler to share a bed in my home with their significant other. Period.

 

[Mouse House Mama]

Yes. The only exception I would make would be a blizzard with 12 ft high snow drifts or flowing hot lava obstructing the route back home.

Well they could ski home or snowtube. As for the lava, well I have seen people walk on fire so my advice to my child would be to walk fast.

 

[mommiepoppins]

Well they could ski home or snowtube. As for the lava, well I have seen people walk on fire so my advice to my child would be to walk fast.

lol

 

[mickeyfan2]

No

 

[DVC Sadie]

Maybe in a parallel universe but not in this one. No way, no how.

 

[Kath2003]

Together, no.
Separate rooms, yes.
My boyfriend stayed over a couple of times when I was 16...but our spare bedroom is downstairs, so it would have been very obvious if anything had been going on; I don't think there is a single stair in the house that doesn't creak

 

[drag n' fly]

no way jose'

 

[ImagineerM]

Thats a gigantic negative here!

Of course if I had a daughter, she'd be lucky if I let her out of her room between the ages of 12 and 18, let alone sleep at some guys house!

 

[mommiepoppins]

no my friend is just dropping her daughter off to spend the night there like its no big deal and she knows how ubsessed her dd is with this guy