I hope you bought the Super-Deluxe model flame suit, because you're about to get scorched!
DH and I were married in Vegas almost 10 years ago. We were living in Virginia, my family was in Michigan, and DH's parents were in San Diego and refused to fly anywhere. Las Vegas was the logical choice. It was driveable for my inlaws and affordable for the rest of us. We had a nice ceremony in the Treasure Island chapel followed by a reception at Kokomo's in the Mirage. It was a first (and only!) marriage for both of us and we both dressed as we would in any other wedding - full wedding gown, tux, best man, maid of honor. Since it was a destination wedding, we had a small, but nice party of 12 guests + the wedding party. No part of our wedding 'mocked the entire idea of a wedding ceremony' - whatever that means! What a rude statement that was! My wedding was just as much a real wedding as any church wedding.

(sorry the pirate is the angriest smilie the DIS has to offer!)