Would you be concerned?

[Uncle Remus]

This is a red Flag alert. Maybe not on your husband's part but definatley on her part. She was very disrespectful to come to your house without you being there and she clearly knew that you weren't there. If you are toying with this then just ask yourself, what is she doing there without you? Why was she aloof with you at the party? why did she have that kind of reaction when you returned home from the party? why wasn't her husband at the party? how did she act on other occassions while in your husband's company? You may not be concerned about your husband's reactions to her behavior right now, but women have a way of manipulating. You don't want this to keep going because it isn't just you that she is doing this in front of, your nieghbors may be talking too. You need to nip this in the bud. I understand that you don't want a big blow out because you guys do things together, but maybe you could take her aside and tell her that you felt uncomfortable with her being at your home while you are not there. Although i amd sure that you are ready to jump down her throat, you might take a different approach and try being more of a support to her and ask if things are ok at home and offer suggestions that she could use to make her own relationship better. Maybe this is something that will work for you. Good luck!

Bless your heart, Darlin', I love peace makers, they make for a tasty treat
OP, it ain't your job to be that *&@#$*'s friend coz she definately ain't yours or she wouldn't be grinnin' in your husband's face. Get your kids another friend and keep that trash down the street outta your life, I'm tellin' ya!
Life's too short to play with people who play nasty!!
I ain't comin' back to this thread, no offense, but you women folk always wanna be nice when you oughta be ruthless especially when it comes to protectin' your family. I don't mean any offense in this and I know y'all resolve issues by blabbin' about it, but this OP has enough to deal with and that *%$#* down the road needs to be put to the curb with the other trash! TRASH, that's what she is! She's TRASH!
Ladies, have a good night.

 

[RitaZ.]

Well, I talked to my DH and no he didn't notice

See what I mean? It has to be blatant for them to get it.

Some women go straight for the kill, they don't even bother to drop hints. DH was told something very inappropiate by a friend's wife. It was something to the effect of "The homeliest people are the "h" people." Yes, it rhymes with homeliest... just use your imagination. I guess that was her way of saying "You don't know what you're missing." DH told me when it happened and all I could do was laugh. How the heck do you say that to your husband's friend? In what context would it ever be appropriate?

 

[Banshee]

DH was told something very inappropiate by a friend's wife. It was something to the effect of "The homeliest people are the "h" people." Yes, it rhymes with homeliest... just use your imagination. I guess that was her way of saying "You don't know what you're missing." DH told me when it happened and all I could do was laugh. How the heck do you say that to your husband's friend? In what context would it ever be appropriate?

Wow I didn't know that about homely people!!!