Here's what we found in October 2001 (just after 9/11, so maybe not all that great to judge):
Food & Wine Fest was VERY crowded on Saturday night. Afterwards, we found ourselves second-guessing our decision to do this on a Saturday night. I advise you to try another night. I think many locals enjoy F&WF and Sat. is when they can come...or tourists read guidebooks, which say that during school year, the best day for Epcot is Sat. Anyway, I wouldn't do THAT again, no way!
MNSSHP was also very crowded. Stay away from the River Belle cruise and the free group photo, and I think you'll be OK. We did the special cruise and were crammed in like sardines, couldn't hear one word the narrator was saying, and wasted the better part of the party, between this and picture-taking. Just take your own pictures behind the castle (there's a beautiful model of Cinderella's pumkin coach, all lit up with real pumpkins around it, just great, and also FREE).
We had VERY cold weather, all day, almost every day. I know this was not typical, but we were totally unprepared, both mentally and physically. Just be prepared for the possibility that you might need more than one pair of long pants and sweatshirt.
I sound like I hated my trip...it was phenomenal!! These were are only mistakes and it was otherwise perfect and magical..
