Not sure what you mean about people with money getting "better seats". First, there are no seats. Second, there are dinners and picnics for WOC. The dinners are already expensive at AG or WOC without WOC. Getting the WOC ticket package is not that much more. Picnics are inexpensive but not necesssary as they get one the same viewing section as those who get the free FP. Fantasmic reserved seats cost much more and give you less - a dessert box rather than a whole dinner.
Yes, I know there are no sitting arrangements. I did not mean literal seats. The WOC ticket is not that much more IF you were interested in dining at those places anyway, which I am not, given the food selections, photos and reviews I've seen, and the prices, but I know (and am glad) that others enjoy them so much.
Some people think the whole FP concept at Disney parks is difficult and overwhelming. Some people think the whole idea of trying to figure out which rides to ride and which will have long lines is overwhelming. So what is difficult for one person is not for another. Forums like this take this information and make it as simple as possible.
Yes, they do offer a lot of insight and information, which is what I come here for. It is not the forums or posters' explanations that are in any way problematic. Having looked at issues around rides, ride FPs, and the other nightly shows, WOC still feels like the most complicated matrix to consider, with the most time invested before and at the park to feel like you know what you're doing and what might be best for your group. At this point, unlike those other visit issues mentioned, I feel like more knowledge has led to more stress and uncertainty rather than less. Especially compared to, say, ride FPs, where I feel more confident and knowledgable about how we would want to utilize them and how using them really will give us a better experience. Part of me feels like I might've been happier just finding out where to line up for WOC and showing up and seeing whatever I see.

So I just wanted the other poster to know she was not alone in her feelings about trying to plan the best WOC experience for her group.
Seeing WOC is not that hard. Get a free FP. Show up early if you want a good view. Show up later if you do not care. Take the advice in the OP on which viewing spots are best and then go there to see the show.
Well, yes, that's basically what I've already come away with. It seems like you have to let go and just accept a lot, no matter how much info and planning you might do. I can't seem to find any surefire way for not paying any extra money to know which color section you'll end up in, which some people have made sound like a BIG deal as for one's viewing pleasure. (Do diners at AG or the other place even know which color they will get for viewing? Again, because I nixed that idea early on, I don't even know the finer details about those options.) And of course, within a particular section, some people have made it sound like one's standing position can make or break the experience, given all the time you spend waiting for it.
Seeing the first Fantasmic show of the night with a good view actually takes more time than WOC.
That's just depressing.

But, unless I'm mistaken (and there's a goodly chance I am), it seems more straightforward, with fewer decisions to make. Isn't F! more a simple First come, first served process where you show up as early as seems worthwhile to you to get your choice of viewing spot? So it might take you more time in the park to stand in line for where you feel good about your viewing odds, but I don't see a dozen threads about all the different options for the viewing experience or people expressing huge differences based on where one got to view it, so I'm not spending as much time pre-park contemplating F! or the fireworks or even Aladdin and its preferred seating.
Again, the main point of my post was to show solidarity with the OP about the array of choices to be made, which is not any kind of reflection on the quality, quantity, or general helpfulness of the contributors to the forum, who are always so helpful in relating their experiences and tips for others.
AJ